So after that he reached out to friends, eventually to his family, then to his therapist. He is in
rehab now, and has been for about two months.
My concern is, how do I know if I was being co-dependent? What if our relationship is toxic to his sobriety? In the first few months, I didn't act much. Mostly out of niativity. After I read up on it though, it changed. I'm blamed myself less for his distance.