Hi there, So, you are having a baby with him, is that right? Are you both teenagers? Lots of big things coming your way very soon. Are you living with his parents too or are you are with yours and he's with his? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just trying to understand.
Do you have any support from your own family?
On the surface, I think it is smart to expect certain things out of the father of our children.
I have been broken up with him for a month and a half and although Im happy I left him, I cant help but stare at the phone in case he left a message. We've broken up several times before and well he pursued me and I guess I was flattered and felt huh he really is a romantic and oh hes really trying. He would do some really sweet things.. And I guess a part of me still wants to go on believing in posibitlities, I used to love the idea we were highschool sweet hearts.
I know the pain of heartbreak is pretty bad and you would do anything to make it go away right away but the reality is that you have to go day by day. If you are having a very hard time with it you may just want to seek counseling to help you through this rough patch in your life. Once the initial shock and sadness wear off you need to take a look at yourself and tell yourself you deserve better.
He has to FIRST want to make a "decision" or "choose." I saw nothing in your posts about him saying he wants to leave the gf. I am not sure if he is wanting to "dump" her for you, hence you want "advice" on how to push him in a direction to "dump" her. In my opinion I don't think he is going to leave her (gf).
Well, in my opinion, I wouldn't pursue this at all. Plus, you both work together.
t want to be with a man that cheats, right? Right? You need to really focus on that you want a healthy relationship with a great guy------------ a non cheating kind of guy! You dodged a bullet, right?
Now no relationship is perfect and you may have missed some signs that things weren't going as great as you thouht. I'd reflect on that so that in your next relationship------ you are wiser and more able to read the relationship.
I know how you feel. I broke up with my boyfriend last week because the way he was treating me was disgraceful. Apparently it was all my fault though because I'm pregnant and I'm a "drama queen". But mine wasn't just other girls...he ended up treating me like he hated me, and treated other girls ("friends") better than he treated me...he wouldn't even go in public with me because he was embarrassed that I'm pregnant and "fat".
t bear to break his heart and do what? Send him back home? What if I make a mistake? If I was to break up with him.. how the hell would I do this? It's scary to think about... but if it's not going to work in the long run, isn't waiting going to make it even worse for him? Sometimes I just want freedom to explore any other options, like meeting someone in my area who has all the qualities I want in someone.
But then I think about how loved I am..
I don't know anything about your gf, but I know when I went through major surgery I pushed a lot of people away. My thought process on it was that I didn't want to cause them pain to have to see and deal with me when I had to go through with it all. Which is pretty stupid, but that was the idea I had. Maybe she could be in that mind frame, so giving her some time can help. After the ordeal is over things can go back to how it was before.
They are your best friend and if anything were to happen during the day like a fight with the boss or something good happening, you want to share it with that person but when you can't it's so hard. Sometimes you want to just say I love you darn it and want to hear their voice but you know you shouldn't and sometimes you can't. Plus you don't want them thinking you miss him, so you have to play the game.
I didn't take a birthing class thinking I would know when my son would be ready to come out. Well I'm 37 weeks a d 4 days along and I have been having what I think ar contractions. Starting in my back and pelvis. The thing I don't know is if they really are. When j walk I have a lot of pelvic pain and pain towards the top of my belly that goes down towards my pelvis. It's kind of sharp but not enough to make me cry. They have been happening ever 5 to 15 minutes.
Hello um... well im a 12 yr old turning 13 in a few days and my bestie told my im flat chested and I'm a 32 a cup and I was wondering how do you make your breast bigger because I feel extremely conscious about my size cause almost all the girls in my school are a size 40 and it feels uncomfortable. I think the reason for my small Breast are:i sleepwith my bra on, I don't live a healthy life don't eat veggies or exercise (unless I'm at school which is 50 min.of p.
Since you claim it was just a handjob and nothing else (that's all it was, right?) then it's probably not worth telling her because she will get really upset and probably break up with you. But don't misunderstand my advice, cause I think it was a stupid thing for you to allow to happen if you claim to care as much about this girl as you say you do. But if all it was, was a happy ending, I mean, there are far worse things that could have happened.
I started seeing a guy who told me he has herpetic whitlow. I like him so I agreed to keep seeing him. We've hung out about 5 times, and have a good connection so we've been making out, dry humping, and mutual masturbation. I am so freaked out that I might catch herpes from him.
I mean he's been with other women before me, and he doesn't feel that way any longer. He keeps telling me he doesn't want to lose me over what he did during that break up, and that the only reason we'll break up is if I break up with him. He wants to stay for the long run.
Yes, I'm 21 and he's 23. We lived together for about 6 months last year, and we're moving back in together in July.
I have been on both sides. I have broken hearts and I was dumped 2 x's. I think maturity has a lot to do with how you respond to a broken heart. As a teenager, I hated, wanted revenge and wanted him to hurt just as much as he hurt me and it took a long time to heal. It changed me as a person. As an adult (up in age now (lol), I had a guy who just wasn't feeling it. He literally told me to go back to my ex...
Do things that are different from the things you did with him. Make some new friends from a different group of people. Change your life in a positive direction and don't give yourself much time alone- even much time to think!! All you can do is distract yourself-- but the funny thing, is that the longer you do this, the better it works. And one day, you will wake up and find that your heart aches less. And each day will get better.
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