I am diabetic (with bad control) and have advanced retinopathy
. There is a very very real chance that the baby could be Type1 diabetic
and blind before it is even born, and I feel this would be an unfair thing to do, especially when its own father won't be there to support it if that happens.
I stumbled upon this website only yesterday and welcomed the option to post a message and get some more information so that I could make an informed decision.