I have been broken up with him for a month and a half and although Im happy I left him, I cant help but stare at the phone in case he left a message. We've broken up several times before and well he pursued me and I guess I was flattered and felt huh he really is a romantic and oh hes really trying. He would do some really sweet things.. And I guess a part of me still wants to go on believing in posibitlities, I used to love the idea we were highschool sweet hearts.
I don't know anything about your gf, but I know when I went through major surgery I pushed a lot of people away. My thought process on it was that I didn't want to cause them pain to have to see and deal with me when I had to go through with it all. Which is pretty stupid, but that was the idea I had. Maybe she could be in that mind frame, so giving her some time can help. After the ordeal is over things can go back to how it was before.
Believe it or not, my ex hubby and I are the best of friends and I could not ever go BACK to him. There was a time when I could've but I didn't want to.
At this time I am mourning another relationship that went bad and my ex hubby is one of my biggest supporters. I am hurting and I understand the obsessive thinking and the sleepless nights along with the constant crying.
I told my boyfriend if his parnts kick him out I'm breakinq up wit him cuz I'm not gana deal with his **** and I need a place for my daughter (32 weekss). He said I was stupid if I broke up with him if his parents kick him out..there the only ones that help us and he dosnt care if they make him leave. Am I stupid for sayinq ill leave him for that?
So i posted a little while ago, about having a boyfriend who talks down to me constantly. Well I finaly got up the courage and broke up with him. I tried to act like an adult, and not put the blame on him for anything in particular. I just told him I wasnt happy, and i think its because we dont see things the same way anymore. He yelled a bunch and told me he never wanted to hear from me again. Which I suppose is for the best. I just need some advice on moving on, some inpsirational words.
hey,
im 17 and have recently this week split up with my first real love of 10 months, im finding it so hard and heart aching because i still love him, i feel like i have to try and make myself stop loving him but i dont no how. everything reminds me of him and our memorys together, and it just triggers me off into tears. is there any advice you can give?
I love you to the moon and back
t bear to break his heart and do what? Send him back home? What if I make a mistake? If I was to break up with him.. how the hell would I do this? It's scary to think about... but if it's not going to work in the long run, isn't waiting going to make it even worse for him? Sometimes I just want freedom to explore any other options, like meeting someone in my area who has all the qualities I want in someone.
But then I think about how loved I am..
Would really fake being pregnant to break up a happy couple? The past year my bf and I have been off and on during our break we met other people.... He met a girl and had unprotected sex with her, because she stated to be on birth control.. I honestly dont know what was going through his head at the time! but I have forgave him.. He doesnt seem to forgave me for what I did which was get with two other guys..
Being attracted to other people is not something to break up over. Have you never looked at another guy while in a relationship? The point is that he's not acting on these things. I know one thing that helps my husband I is talking about our fantisies or attractions. The hubs has a weird thing for redheads so once in a while I'll buy a box of washout hair dye to surprise him. The point is give him some slack he's normal, it doesn't mean he's cheating or will cheat.
Anything you google along with HIV is going to bring up something, true or not. A lot of the information is completely outdated. I highly doubt a test at 6 months would calm your fears. I had a negative at 6 months and it helped me but I still have symptoms and you are apparently way more scared than I am. I don't know what your exposure was. Why don't you call your states hiv hotline and talk to them and see what they state about the window period.
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