there has never been any harm done and they realize why they got the spanking and apoligize for there crummy behavior and
we talk about why it happend and
what they can do to not get in
trouble again. Thing magically, there are never problems about it again..By no means do I beat my child/children, but what exactly do you suggest, especially if you have a rotten kid, like some parents do, shall parents utilize in disiplining the child??? Are you a fan of spoil the child, spare the rod?