Well, I don't have kids, but I do have ADHD. I'm 20 now and was just recently diagnosed, but this is something I've struggled with
since childhood. Try to
keep in mind that what seems to you to
be "not caring" or "not trying" is often just not so.
For instance, with
out medication, I have trouble being patient. I get frustrated easily. If it's something with
a lot of instructions, I struggle with
it. My first instinct is to
throw my hands up and say "forget it!