He still has HUGE temper tantrums, including hitting and kicking, and does not respond well to anything, discipline or love, when he's in
the midst of
a tantrum. I have done a small amount of
reading on ODD and I think he shows a majority of the symptoms. The only catch is that he seems to be a perfect child (mostly) in public. He's not a behavior problem in school and he has many friends, though I have noticed he tends to be bossy.