The problem may be, that even if you want to solve something, you have to be sure that it is appropriate, right
. Things which give you peace and joy, when you think about them, tend to be right
. Well, you might be scared of some such thoughts or feel a total refuse to accomplish them, I'm not talking about being romantic here. It may be of great great worth, if you find someone, who wants to achive the same goals as you - together with you.