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If you are getting a lot of outbreaks, and since transmitting this is a big concern for you, have you thought about suppressive therapy? No
studies have been done to see how effective it is on reducing oral hsv1 transmission, but it has been proven to reduce outbreaks. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17668537 The theory is that if it's working to prevent outbreaks, it would also work to reduce transmission, but studies haven't been done on this to say for sure.