at this point you need to do what is best for you and your baby, even if it means leaving. it will hurt but it will get better.
I agree with specialmom, just because he was bad for you doesn't mean you will just get over it. He is a routine for you. At some point he was your best friend. You called him when something happened, you called him probably all throughout the day so you have to just get out of that routine of wanting to talk to him. When I went through a major breakup I would find solace in the gym. I used to work out like crazy.
My last period was March 13-15. It started out with a lot of bloody discharge. We have been ttc for a couple of years. We were successful 2 years ago, but I miscarried. We have since tried 4 IUIs with no luck. We've taken a break from the IUIs, but not given up on conceiving. I'm now at day 18 of my cycle and I'm usually 27-28 days. On 3/29 we had "relations" and the next morning I noticed brownish blood when I wiped.
Ok, a little back ground.
My boyfriend and I were told (early in our relationship) that it would be.difficult for us to conceive. (Him: low sperm count and twisted cords) (me: tilted uterus, blockages in fallopian tubes, and very irregular cycles) so we made the choice that no birth control would be fine. It worked, 4 years later, we.
You walk away. If he is persistant you tell him you have to delete his contact info and you wish him to do the same. You pray for the man that will be all that you need for you and your children and you have patience :) That's what I did.
I fell in love with a man that drank, smoked weed, cussed, and also had anger issues i didn't know about until I was already in love. And I broke up with him.
I don't know anything about your gf, but I know when I went through major surgery I pushed a lot of people away. My thought process on it was that I didn't want to cause them pain to have to see and deal with me when I had to go through with it all. Which is pretty stupid, but that was the idea I had. Maybe she could be in that mind frame, so giving her some time can help. After the ordeal is over things can go back to how it was before.
Sounds like your caring for TWO babies..I'd tell him it's time to grow up.he must've never heard the phrase you can't always get what you want..you have a child that BOTH of you made..not just him..it takes two to "tango" and it will take two to name it.
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I know the pain of heartbreak is pretty bad and you would do anything to make it go away right away but the reality is that you have to go day by day. If you are having a very hard time with it you may just want to seek counseling to help you through this rough patch in your life. Once the initial shock and sadness wear off you need to take a look at yourself and tell yourself you deserve better.
I agree with Jennifer, it was the not calling him. They are your best friend and if anything were to happen during the day like a fight with the boss or something good happening, you want to share it with that person but when you can't it's so hard. Sometimes you want to just say I love you darn it and want to hear their voice but you know you shouldn't and sometimes you can't. Plus you don't want them thinking you miss him, so you have to play the game.
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Anyway, just call him or text him about the exchange and say 