I would then spend a whole bunch of one on one time
with your daughter getting
to the bottom of it. Be careful not
to lead her or put words in her mouth, but talk to her. It may very well be she is just resentful of this man and new baby taking mom's time from her and this is how she is handling it. Or, you may come to the conclusion he really did hurt her. Again, this is only my opinion and what I believe I would do if faced with the same situation.