Do you buy your own
gas, pay for insurance on your car, buy your own food, help pay for
gas, water and electricity, pay the internet/cable bills, your phone bill, anything? You can be stable enough to have multiple children if you don't factor in these things. Also, you have to keep in mind the "what ifs". Can you guys afford to live on one income, or what if your pregnancy has complications. You might not be able to work while pregnant.