Those you are closest to----------- like your parents, maybe one friend, and eventually your spouse----- those top relationships sit on the top. And it moves down from there. When you go through something traumatic, you have less energy to deal with those on the lower steps or tiers. After only two months, you can't expect to be at the top yet.
A VERY thorough medical work up should relieve your mind that all your major systems are working just fine and giving therapy another chance is my advice to break this cycle. Finding the perfect fit with a therapist can take many tries. If you get with a therapist you really like and trust, you'd be amazed at how easy it is to talk to them. I think perhaps your last therapist was a "bad fit" and those almost always fail.
There are a number of ways to find a good therapist. You could ask some of your friends if they know one they would recommend. Your doctor can recommend one or two, or a clinic they are familiar with. Your local hospital usually can provide the names of therapists in your area. There may be a "physician hot line" you could call and have them recommend a therapist.
Hi there, So, you are having a baby with him, is that right? Are you both teenagers? Lots of big things coming your way very soon. Are you living with his parents too or are you are with yours and he's with his? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just trying to understand.
Do you have any support from your own family?
On the surface, I think it is smart to expect certain things out of the father of our children.
Get physically active and fill up your time with things that can make you happy. Do things that are different from the things you did with him. Make some new friends from a different group of people. Change your life in a positive direction and don't give yourself much time alone- even much time to think!! All you can do is distract yourself-- but the funny thing, is that the longer you do this, the better it works. And one day, you will wake up and find that your heart aches less.
I had an appt with my therapist Thursday, we just chatted. Usually I'm constantly looking a the clock, but that day I never looked at it once! It was refreshing to have someone to just chat with in a safe place. Usually she asks how my weeks were, what I was doing and ... I have been going to her for 11 years. She just got out of college and was starting out, I was realizing that I was depressed. Just wanted to say I had a good session!
Do comfort food! Ur favorite food that always cheers u up, but do something.
In some cases, though, the symptoms can get worse or last for months or even years. Sometimes they may completely shake up your life. In a case such as this, you may have post-traumatic stress disorder.
That's probably why medications aren't working all they will do is push emotions to the side talk to her/him about this and she/he should create a treatment plan it's not easy going trough with it but its worth it best of luck to you !
This was the last advice. "You are wasting your time studying your body, trying to work up an HIV theory, because doctors don't diagnose from symptoms. "
Here is an update to your previous thread about this.
Seek therapy because your anxiety is a bit of a mental illness at this point.
Being attracted to other people is not something to break up over. Have you never looked at another guy while in a relationship? The point is that he's not acting on these things. I know one thing that helps my husband I is talking about our fantisies or attractions. The hubs has a weird thing for redheads so once in a while I'll buy a box of washout hair dye to surprise him. The point is give him some slack he's normal, it doesn't mean he's cheating or will cheat.
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I had an incident today (in India) when I visited a massage parlor where I had intercourse with the therapist/sex worker. Intercourse was being initiated/just started when my condom broke. Basically it broke immediately as I inserted (I was in her) and I immediately pulled out (exposure of 2-3 seconds max). I washed my self with water and wiped my self down. I understand that this should be low risk but wanted your opinion on the same.
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