I had a break up approx 6 weeks ago. I thought this was the gal i was going to marry. we were together for 2 years, at times it was on/off but never truly off. This time it is off! I know she has found someone else and i have not. I can not seem to shake the feelings of missing her, at times it really hurts. I have been divorced for 12 years. My kids are 18, 17 and 15. Their mother has quite a few mental challenges.
You called him when something happened, you called him probably all throughout the day so you have to just get out of that routine of wanting to talk to him. When I went through a major breakup I would find solace in the gym. I used to work out like crazy. I would take kick boxing, which I found to be extremely therapeutic in healing. I would take belly dancing to feel sexy. I would look good and feel good from the natural endorphins. It also gave me motivation and confidence.
that totally sux hun soo sorry!!! for my first break up I dealt with it by going out with some else im still.with him 5years later but that's how I dealt with it!..the pain doez go away!!! ohhh and yes dont stress out it does cause harm to the baby my doc who is a specialist said mind is very powerfull and stress can cause you to lose the baby. my best friend lost her bf in a car accident she was 23weeks and she lost the baby.
I'm quite the hypochondriac and my latest worry is that I'm developing schizophrenia, something I'm sure a lot of you fear or have feared in the past. I've been obsessed with music since I was a kid and have always had songs in my head, but now I'm hyper aware of my own thoughts it seems constant, with related words triggering songs instantly from the moment I wake. I even hear songs looping as I'm waking.
I am desperately holding onto hope that the music stops because between the music and the thoughts they kind of feed off of each other and my only break from the music and thoughts are during sleep. While in the hospital they had me on numerous drugs and even did two treatments of ECT and nothing seemed to help. The nurse practicioner is concerned about putting me on zoloft because it may push me manic but at this moment these thoughts and music are taking me away from life.
Hi there, So, you are having a baby with him, is that right? Are you both teenagers? Lots of big things coming your way very soon. Are you living with his parents too or are you are with yours and he's with his? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just trying to understand.
Do you have any support from your own family?
On the surface, I think it is smart to expect certain things out of the father of our children.
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