posting songs that dealt with him, me, and his mood each day. I figured he was scared of going near me until my divorce was final. He did post many songs about waiting until after the summer (that's when it will be final), about him being shy (which I found odd because we were together before, during, and after classes for 8 months w/o worry), and also songs about missing me, loving me, and wanting to be together w/ me.
I had a break up approx 6 weeks ago. I thought this was the gal i was going to marry. we were together for 2 years, at times it was on/off but never truly off. This time it is off! I know she has found someone else and i have not. I can not seem to shake the feelings of missing her, at times it really hurts. I have been divorced for 12 years. My kids are 18, 17 and 15. Their mother has quite a few mental challenges.
It is for this reason that I have had so much trouble giving him up. We based our relationship on friendship first. I do think he had divorce baggage, and I certainly question him rushing into yet another relationship. This woman he had no previous connection to, so there is not even that foundation.
I will try to move on. I just know this is going to be sticky. I feel like he is going to pop back into my life at some point, and it will be a very difficult situation.
t make these statistics up------- almost every single relationship that starts while someone is still married ends in divorce/break up itself. Why do that to yourself? It is setting yourself up for failure. It just isn't worth it.
I could tell you how wrong it is that you want this man that has a family at home that is counting on him.
We have 2 songs, one is "Lullaby" by the spill canvas :)
the other is 03 Bonnie N Clyde By Jay-z and Beyonce
And our movie is "Couple's Retreat"
I think a therapist would be a wonderful idea for you. Someone neutral that you can really explore why this relationship holds you in bondage. Is that something you'd consider?? Sometimes when we are in an unhealthy relationship, we've developed unhealthy thought patterns that we have to undo. So, the help of a therapist could be a great thing for you.
that totally sux hun soo sorry!!! for my first break up I dealt with it by going out with some else im still.with him 5years later but that's how I dealt with it!..the pain doez go away!!! ohhh and yes dont stress out it does cause harm to the baby my doc who is a specialist said mind is very powerfull and stress can cause you to lose the baby. my best friend lost her bf in a car accident she was 23weeks and she lost the baby.
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