Do you mean
you don't know why you're doing IVF?? I mean
, granted, it's 'cause ya been having all this fun but there's no end product but I assumed that everyone doing this knew what
their "problem" was. I mean
, it's not like you go around asking "So what
's WRONG with YOU?" but I assumed everyone knew what
their specific reason was. Mine is that DH did a very stupid thing 23 years
ago and so there's a bit of a physical barrier preventing us from producing results.