Similarly, when HSV lesions appear for the first time, they tend to take 2-3 weeks to heal, not just a few days. In addition, HSV lesions
tend to form multiple, not single lesions
which contain clear liquid. They don't bleed or scab. Finally, for the genital lesion you have a good alternative explanation and the sore on your lip could be due to any number of things. In summary, what you describe does not sound suspicious for herpes. I would not worry.