The best thing to do if you are being abused , is
to seek safe refuge, be it a shelter, or a family member,. and get
to a therapist. Often, like one that has been kidnapped and suffers from Stockholm Syndrome, an abused person needs a sort of debriefing from their experience in order to move on and have closure. It was my experience that while I was suffering from PTSD, my abusive partner was starting up something new. Probably had been doing so while i was with him still.