So I broke up with my boyfriend after a somewhat rocky seven year relationship. The guy didnt treat me great. I often heard (mostly in rocky times) "your a ****** joke" and well he could yell for hours. Just couldnt calm down. There were lost of trust issues, compatibility issues but we were crazy about each other. We had so much history. So I persevered through the years with a positive outlook that has caused me palpitations and constant anxiety about the future.
s going to help you with child care, how are you going to get money, etc. All that planning you have to do before a baby arrives. If your boyfriend turns out to be a good dad, fantastic. Icing on the cake of all the plans you've made. If not, you are prepared.
I also encourage you to continue your education as far as you can go. College or trade school to get a sustainable job down the road is so important for your financial future to be independent.
Let me start out with this- I love my boyfriend to death. He's kind, caring, sweet, loving, attractive, smart...everything you could hope for in a significant other. We have great conversations, he's my best friend, we just get along wonderfully. There's one problem though. His voice has been annoying the hell out of me lately. It's not his normal voice, it's these impersonations, I guess you would call them, that he does.
t bear to break his heart and do what? Send him back home? What if I make a mistake? If I was to break up with him.. how the hell would I do this? It's scary to think about... but if it's not going to work in the long run, isn't waiting going to make it even worse for him? Sometimes I just want freedom to explore any other options, like meeting someone in my area who has all the qualities I want in someone.
But then I think about how loved I am..
I was kicked out of my house recently they said either break up with your boyfriend and learn to stay in the house such as drop my friends and live a good life where you get anything you want or get out and they gave me a couple of months to find a place. My boyfriend goes to a university 40 mins away from where we lived and the school is becoming too expensive so him and his bestfriend are trying to get apartment together.
Being attracted to other people is not something to break up over. Have you never looked at another guy while in a relationship? The point is that he's not acting on these things. I know one thing that helps my husband I is talking about our fantisies or attractions. The hubs has a weird thing for redheads so once in a while I'll buy a box of washout hair dye to surprise him. The point is give him some slack he's normal, it doesn't mean he's cheating or will cheat.
I don't know anything about your gf, but I know when I went through major surgery I pushed a lot of people away. My thought process on it was that I didn't want to cause them pain to have to see and deal with me when I had to go through with it all. Which is pretty stupid, but that was the idea I had. Maybe she could be in that mind frame, so giving her some time can help. After the ordeal is over things can go back to how it was before.
Excuse my french, but, who the **** cares about their opinions. You sound like a woman who has got herself together in more ways than one. And I, for one, commend you on having a well paying job and a stable relationship with a partner who is also working. We aren't all so fortunate as that. You're young, but so what, that just means you'll spend more time playing with you little one than watching them. Keep your head up and let all that negativity roll off your back.
Believe it or not, my ex hubby and I are the best of friends and I could not ever go BACK to him. There was a time when I could've but I didn't want to.
At this time I am mourning another relationship that went bad and my ex hubby is one of my biggest supporters. I am hurting and I understand the obsessive thinking and the sleepless nights along with the constant crying.
Water breaking does smell really bad lol so im glad my water didnt break at home
Its time to let go. Don't call it giving up. You put your health and your baby's health at risk worrying about a man who can't even handle everyday responsibilities like getting a job. If you know you deserve better, what are you waiting for? Potential is nothing if there isn't any effort made to be better. Move on! He isn't ready to be a man, he rather run from his responsibilities. Your focus should be your health of you and your child.
s a personal decision based on your own tolerance for frustration, your ability to live with what you have going on and your willingness to expend more time and energy.
Sometimes a break is what's needed. I took a 6 or 7 month break and wound up with a paralyzed arm temporarily. Even then it took another three months to get looking again.
None of my MS stuff is even touched by OTC meds. I wish it were.
Hope this gives you some things to think about.
my boyfriend has autism, he's one of the most loving lads ever, he's so kind and just amazing! but when someone annoys him, he snaps real easy and goes nuts, he's often smashed things up and like trashed the house, and other times when he's teasy he will run out of the house and shout if anyone follows he will... kill himself:'(
im not scared of him, and im not scared that he would ever hurt me, or any of his friends and family. but i am very worried about him?
From experience as well my bf wanted to leave me when he found out he wanted a break and get back together when he wanted. But i couldn't do that. Then we eventually did break up and now we still talk but he won't give up his life for a life with me and my baby. After a while i realized he's not worth waiting for if he doesn't love you the same way.
I took a break from him after I found all of that out and to decide whether or not I wanted to stay with him. When I met up with him after the little break he told me that he doesn't actually have feelings for her, but he never had closure from the way everything ended with them so he thought he was feeling something for her but realized that she's not what he wants. I understood that because I was in the same situation with one of my exes a few years back.
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