Being attracted to other people is not something to break up over. Have you never looked at another guy while in a relationship? The point is that he's not acting on these things. I know one thing that helps my husband I is talking about our fantisies or attractions. The hubs has a weird thing for redheads so once in a while I'll buy a box of washout hair dye to surprise him. The point is give him some slack he's normal, it doesn't mean he's cheating or will cheat.
but I have quite a few who I will meet up with on random occasions to have sex with.. it has greatly affected my relationship.... to the point where I have seriously questioned my fiance if he might be open to an open relationship...
I love him.. and love the stability of our relationship, but sexually... it just doesent do it for me. I like the excitement of someone new! Not knowing what is going to happen.... etc! It just scares me that perhaps getting married is just NOT me.
I don't know anything about your gf, but I know when I went through major surgery I pushed a lot of people away. My thought process on it was that I didn't want to cause them pain to have to see and deal with me when I had to go through with it all. Which is pretty stupid, but that was the idea I had. Maybe she could be in that mind frame, so giving her some time can help. After the ordeal is over things can go back to how it was before.
When you love someone they are all that matters and you do your best to build that person up and let them know just how much they mean to you. Sounds like he has a lot of growing up to do. I'm sorry you are being treated like that. I have been in the same situation when I was younger. I hate to tell you this but he probably won't change. You deserve better than that and so does your baby.
You called him when something happened, you called him probably all throughout the day so you have to just get out of that routine of wanting to talk to him. When I went through a major breakup I would find solace in the gym. I used to work out like crazy. I would take kick boxing, which I found to be extremely therapeutic in healing. I would take belly dancing to feel sexy. I would look good and feel good from the natural endorphins. It also gave me motivation and confidence.
Believe it or not, my ex hubby and I are the best of friends and I could not ever go BACK to him. There was a time when I could've but I didn't want to.
At this time I am mourning another relationship that went bad and my ex hubby is one of my biggest supporters. I am hurting and I understand the obsessive thinking and the sleepless nights along with the constant crying.
Im 37 weeks pregnant and today me and my fiance had sex twice. 4 hours later ive started having a lot of clear discharge enough to soak my panties. Could this be my water breaking or could this be left over from sex?
Its hard to know what the ins and outs of your relationship are to give you confidence in how you should handle it. Sometimes when someone pulls away, its what's best for them or you and its hard to not worry but you have to be okay with that.
It's interesting that when someone breaks up with us, we begin to find fault with ourselves. For example, "I wasn't pretty enought", "I'm not smart enought", "He's better than me", etc. when in reality and in most cases, we are beautiful inside and out and we are intelligent. It was just not meant to be no matter what, but it's so difficult to get pass the "if only's and what if's".
Thank you all for sharing your story.
After all the bs i put up with and everything ive been through with his suicidal *** and his crazy ex baby mama and he says if it werent for this baby hed leave me... is he kidding!? Newsflash i wanted to leave so long ago and stuck it out bc i love him and 30 days before my due date he says that! I told him ok well a kid wont even make me stay with you so i need to start making new plans..
So, my fiance works at a restaurant in one of the casinos we have here. He frys the food. He's getting paid $12 a hour. He REALLY hates the job. It's not the people he says, its the job itself. It's not difficult, he just hates being a cook. Which I understand I hate it too. His dream job is to be a sheriff deputy. Which he's gotta do a few things before he can actually get into the process of applying. So he saw that the security at the casino was hiring.
This is not a man you want to have a child with. This is not someone you want to be stuck with for the rest of your life because you have a child together.
So, I think you break up and move on completely. I'd wait until someone cares enough to ask you to marry them and by doing so says publicly that they are committed to you before you even talk about having kids together.
That is my best advice to you at this point. You can do better.
So i posted a little while ago, about having a boyfriend who talks down to me constantly. Well I finaly got up the courage and broke up with him. I tried to act like an adult, and not put the blame on him for anything in particular. I just told him I wasnt happy, and i think its because we dont see things the same way anymore. He yelled a bunch and told me he never wanted to hear from me again. Which I suppose is for the best. I just need some advice on moving on, some inpsirational words.
Hi - could anyone please tell me why when in bed with my partner (he's 36) it's like lying next to a furnace? I can't cuddle up to him :o( I'm struggling to find answers or solutions.
Thank you, Your right it is her problem if she doesn't accept it. I wish I could wait till I have the baby to say anything to her, but I'm seeing her tonight. She wanted to spend time with her 3 granddaughters for the first time in 6 months or more. I don't even want to let her, but the spouse has already confirmed it. I've already told myself if she is rude in anyway at all I'm taking my girls home with me and she doesn't have to be apart of there life or the baby.
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