about labeling people, I'd say that on taking labels with a mature point of view one gets to know and accept the trends of one's own personality, which means that you know in advance what
you yourself will behave like
under all of the circumstances of life. If under sress you get depressed (most of people do), then you can have a handful of countering measures to help stabilize your life, which means whatever you like more (name it: fishing, yachting, sex, etc. i.e.