There may be a real neurotic streak there, too, screwing
up her relationships, either in
the people she chooses, or
the way she behaves
with them. Something in her makes for bad situations, and keeps her staying in them. She expects more and more, but ages, and without the vitality of youth, has only her character to offer, and that shows itself as flawed. She doesn't seem to LEARN. Just at the human level (I'm no particular fan) I've noticed her over the years, and fear for her.