I have been broken up with him for a month and a half and although Im happy I left him, I cant help but stare at the phone in case he left a message. We've broken up several times before and well he pursued me and I guess I was flattered and felt huh he really is a romantic and oh hes really trying. He would do some really sweet things.. And I guess a part of me still wants to go on believing in posibitlities, I used to love the idea we were highschool sweet hearts.
All you can do is distract yourself-- but the funny thing, is that the longer you do this, the better it works. And one day, you will wake up and find that your heart aches less. And each day will get better. But you have to work at it otherwise you will just keep hurting. I know it doesn't help- but just about everyone has gone through this in their life--and sooner or later it gets better- and you feel you learned something from it.
its been a month now since we broke up and the days are still long and very difficult. All I do is think of her. I will just cry. I try and get myslef to do things. I will go to the gym and hangout with friends but every night it all comes back to me. Its like I dont know what to do anymore. I know she loves me. She had told me in a text "as much as I want to be with you...my brain tells me I desevre someone who doesnt do that." I feel horrible for what i did.
s terms without turning to our DOC is a very difficult task as that is the only way we knew who to cope. But we have to break the habit, like smoking cigs, you light up after you eat, after a fight, after sex etc., but once you BREAK the cycle, it does start to become a habit and before we know it we have added clean time under our belts. So my friends, lets fight this beast lets put on our coat of armor and be ready to battle, i am ready... are you?
You can do it if you really want to but only you can do the work. Losing a bf is NOT the end of the world. You had a life before them and you will have a life after them. But doing drugs to numb the pain is not the answer. you need to talk to someone about how youre feeling. Trust me this is not the way to do it.
The reason i struggled with the break up is because we had a strong connection. If i give you examples of the pos and negatives of the relationship.
Positives.... best connection ive ever had and he felt the same. Amazing love making and closeness.
Enjoyed one anothers company.
Had fun together
Enjoyed the same things
Both werent fussed about having kids
Both very affectionate
He was loving and romantic
Negatives
Think he could be a mummys boy
Puts his mum and dad before his gf.
Make a smoothie or something with fruits at least to get something down for the baby....but if this break up is kerping u from eating which in return may harm the baby you should seak help. It obvious you care about ur baby since ur worried about it but talk to someone, a friend, family member, or professional. Ur baby cant live and grow if ur keeping urself from eating. Do comfort food! Ur favorite food that always cheers u up, but do something.
Being attracted to other people is not something to break up over. Have you never looked at another guy while in a relationship? The point is that he's not acting on these things. I know one thing that helps my husband I is talking about our fantisies or attractions. The hubs has a weird thing for redheads so once in a while I'll buy a box of washout hair dye to surprise him. The point is give him some slack he's normal, it doesn't mean he's cheating or will cheat.
I did not ask for the gift. He put them on my car without asking. Now, we are breaking up. What is the protocol for such a thing? Do u give back the gift? Of course they are no longer new. He has the old ones. I am also concerned he will come to my work and take them off and leave me without tires. He's vendictive and I'm sure he's gonna be pissed every time the money to pay them off comes out of his paycheck. What do I do if anything?
The quickest way to get over a break up is to make sure you have zero contact with that individual. That means, no looking at their photos, reading their letters/emails/texts that you've saved, no trips down memory lane of all the fond memories you shared. Do you best to avoid that person and not run into them or be at places you know they are going to be. Once you've done that, start spending time with friends, or make new ones. Get yourself out there and start dating casually.
I'd put him on the birth certificate and when the baby is born, slap him with the child-support summons.
I have a 3 yr old daughter and recently found out I'm a month pregnant.. Me and my boyfriend broke up after a huge fight..my parents don't want him in our lives..I moved to another state the same week which were our plans in the first place but now we won't even talk or text.. I love him dearly.. I miss him so much but it seems our relationship is over..I'm very depressed wishing and praying we can work things out..we said mean stuff to each other...
I ALWAYS think something is wrong with me!! Every ache, every minor pain = ILLNESS. I can't seem to break the cycle of thinking that way. I've had this for years but it seems to be getting worse. Too nervous to take medication because of the possible side-effects. Trying some cognitive therapy but no real improvement from that. It's pretty much all day, every day with moments of feeling ok and not be overly anxious about it.
Going cold turkey with all of the high powered drugs i was on if i took one hydocodone as a "break" would it set me back or would i be able to get a little rest tonight and pick up where i left off?
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