You may have some tough decisions ahead. Many times people with
bipolar have other
problems at the same time. For example, I have
bipolar, boarderline personality disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, schizoid personality type, and dysthemia (sp?) which is a constant low laying depression. So, your husband may be dealing with a lot more than he realizes. It is best to get him into treatment and work together it will be best for both you.
Take care!