re using latex condoms, be sure to use one water-
based (like Astroglide, Slippery Stuff, or Elbow Grease Gel) or silicone-
based (like Eros's silicone lube), but it's important never to use petroleum-based or oil-based lubricants (like Vaseline or massage oil) since those destroy latex.
4. Although lubricant is a requirement, do NOT use any of creams (or any drugs) that dull nerves and mask any pain. These encourage tearing of the skin and other harm to the anus, since they dull pain.