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I have a 19 week old son and im 15 weeks pregnant again. Just lately fella is always wanting sex and if I don't give it him we argue. I've been very ill with both pregnancy's but that doesn't seem to sink in. I don't work at the moment and he says you can't be tired you don't do anything.
HAHAHAHA, i'm sure you're not old at all! and what you say here makes a lot of sense. dragging or letting men in and out of a child's life is for sure one thing - i just thought the post was more directed toward when it's okay for her to start dating after a divorce?
My question is it possible for two diferent men to impregnate ths same egg? My situation is I'am going thru a divorce and my child is 2 1/2 yrs old and after giving birth my friend took a DNA test that confirmed that hea was the father within a 98% chance. Two years later going thru the divorce the husband has taken a DNA test it shows a 99% chance. The child looks are more towards with the 98% man than 99%man. Someone has said that it is possible to have two men impregnate the same egg.
I'm sorry you're thinking about divorce. That's always a tough time, even if the reasons for the divorce are good ones.
So suppressive therapy works to help prevent outbreaks and to help stop asymptomatic viral shedding (ASV). This is when the virus is active on your skin, but there are so signs or symptoms, so you don't know it, but you could transmit herpes at this time.
I'm assuming you have genital hsv2, and the blood test confirmed that.
Well you could always withhold the sex and he will find someone to do it with and then you can divorce him for adultry. Seriously now, you have two options. The first is to go on life you hve for all these years and the second is to get out. God doesnt like suicide much either and geesh, get yer stuff and move out and be happy for crying out loud. Or just move out and let him file for divorce but at least live by yourself and let what ever happens happen from that point.
I recently learned that my wife has started drinking again after 10 years of sobriety. She is a high level professional and historically a high functioning alcoholic. There are several concerns I have. 1. When my wife drinks she seeks attention from men and gives signs that she is available. Self admits she is seeking validation from men. This has led to very bad and painful events. 2.
Hi expert,
I am newly divorced in the last year. Since my divorce i have became bisexual and have been with 4 men i met on the internet. All were married with kids and claimed to have no STD"s. All four of the men i performed oral sex too. I never took any cum in the mouth or anywere for that matter. I also Performed anal sex to one of them with a condom for a couple mintutes and I dont recall the condom breaking and I also pulled out before I came.
Marriage is work and men can be SO ridiculous and stubborn. But so can we. So talk with him before doing anything rash.
I'm a 46 yr old woman having casual sex again after a divorce. This year i have had sex with 10 men. All but two have worn condoms, and only two have cum inside me (both were tested) and one (god help me, I can't remember which one!) has cum in my mouth. But what worries me is that there are more than a few times that a guy has entered me "just for a minute" and then pulled out to ejaculate. Do you think I am at risk of being infected??
I saw a therapist when getting divorced who actually gave me some viagra tablets saying my divorce could effect my sexual performance as I seem to be a "serial monogamist" and she strongly encouraged I have fun and not get into a serious relationship.
It's 3 years later and I still get nervous when a women gets in bed and starts taking my clothes off - without viagra I get flaccid, but when masturbating I'm rock solid.
Mine too. I just feel like I want a divorce sum times just can't take the BS all the time and same excuses that things GONNA change and don't! Fell like I will be happier single!
You stepping out on marriage too? Geesh! Be prepared, yer day in coming. What goes around comes around, full circle. What else can I say? Yuck!
My husband came out of a 25-yr marriage to a nymphomaniac, who he eventually divorced b/c she cheated more than once. We have only been married for 3-yrs, but divorce is back on the table for the 5th time and I'm tired of the threats, disrespect and problems. My husband masturbates almost every day; because of his age (59) and pre-conditioning with previous wife, he has to take viagra to do so.
Divorce is very serious. Men don't really connect with baby before birth. So please don't make such a decision just based off that. If you say you love Jesus, then you know our vows are a covenant and sacred. Wait until after the birth and your hormones have had and chance to adjust. I know it's hard to hear but they really do cloud our judgment.
My folks have been divorced for 23 years however both remarried, I'm happy for them etc. I've dealt with the whole thing fine. Ugly divorce it was but they were better off parting ways.
Anywho, flash forward to present. 2 years ago I got a DUI. (I know stupid mistake, won't do it again, whole ordeal sucked) but while I was on probabtion, from January of last year until August, I kept getting stopped left and right by cops. And I'm not one to speed or anything.
You should discover that women get their sex drive differently than men. YOU CAN deliver the specific approach to her that will increase her desire for you, even if she currently does not show a sex drive or has been abused in the past. This is a long road, for both of you. There is no over night fix, but I have seen it fixed many times.
I think you've reached a crossroads with it, and it might be time to tell her you're not actually okay with it.
She obviously has some physical limitations on what you can do, so a very long protracted session of sex would be painful so some stuff is off the table.
It used to be that women euphamistically called this their "wifely duty", but there's really something true at the core of that.
All that dating a guy in the throes of divorce will do is make him remember the nasty time during the divorce when he thinks of you. And who knows, he might already have his eye on some other woman -- men rarely divorce "just because," even if they are unhappy in their marriages ... they usually only will go through with it if someone who looks better is waiting. Sorry to say.
Sam, you make some great points. Yes, it's true that women file for divorce more than men. I think it's b/c men and women have different expectations of marriage. Also, men will take longer to file for divorce so women have to do it. It's not that the men don't want the divorce, some men just don't want to be bothered with the process of a divorce. Maybe men see it as a big failure while women just want to move on with their life?
Hello. I am a teacher who is 29 years old. I am going throught a divorce. This past week has been the biggest mess ever. I had an affair on my husband. When he left, only a few months ago, the affair was still going on. I left the man that I was having an affair with because I instantly understood that it would never work. You see, he is a criminal and convicted sex offender. My parents would never accept him. But for some reason, I felt that I loved him. I really did.
After 3 years of ttc, all sorts of tests, and 2 IUI, I finally got pregnant...only to m/c at 61/2 wks (5 wks ago). I have been doing OK, I guess, with ups and downs, but my marriage is suffering. I have felt alone and miserable; my husband seems to be doing great. Just now I was trying to talk to him: I was telling him how I had had a great day, feeling fine all morning... I also said I was surprised that it had been quite a while since I felt so good, but that later I felt sad...
I am 20 years old so I doubt that age is not the problem. After sex, my inability to orgasm led me to conclude that I was gay by assumption. However, after reading several online blogs, I read that there are quite a few people who have my same inability to orgasm.I was a little afraid to have sex with my girlfriend because she has herpes and while I wore a condom, I still had some fears and pulled out several times. I have a history of anxiety attacks, but I do not take anti-anxiety medication.
No it is not possible to spread hsv-2 through kissing unless you have hsv-2 orally which is highly unlikely. Oral hsv-2 is very rare and is usually in men that have sex with other men. Hsv-1 does not shed often. Shedding is when there are no sores present but the virus is laying on the skin and is contagious. Avoid kissing your kids on the mouth when a sore is present. If not present then you should be okay although there is no garuntee. But like I said hsv--1 does not shed often.
For a conclusive test, it has to be done 3 months after your last unprotected encounter with your husband. Your husband may be having unprotected sex with these men and could easily catch HIV. This is a very dangerous situation. I would leave the marriage for your safety and peace of mind. Good luck.
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