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Avatar m tn I don't know anything about your gf, but I know when I went through major surgery I pushed a lot of people away. My thought process on it was that I didn't want to cause them pain to have to see and deal with me when I had to go through with it all. Which is pretty stupid, but that was the idea I had. Maybe she could be in that mind frame, so giving her some time can help. After the ordeal is over things can go back to how it was before.
Avatar m tn I know how you feel. It seems like this feeling will never go away and you cannot imagine yourself with someone else...what a bleak, depressing and dangerous feeling. But please remember there is hope. I know it's an old cliche but time really does heal...when I left my husband after 16 yrs. I was a mess. I missed my "old life" so much and I truly felt like there was no light at the end of the tunnel.
376148 tn?1309899577 Men take things literally...he may very well have not WANTED to leave. Suck it up and call him or go see him. Tell him how sorry you are, that you never really MEANT for him to leave it was just said in the heat of the argument. Then see where it goes from there.
Avatar f tn Hi there, So, you are having a baby with him, is that right? Are you both teenagers? Lots of big things coming your way very soon. Are you living with his parents too or are you are with yours and he's with his? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just trying to understand. Do you have any support from your own family? On the surface, I think it is smart to expect certain things out of the father of our children.
6548496 tn?1384490023 how do you deal with a break up with your boyfriend? Me and my boyfriend just broke up because he cheated on me once again i need some advice somebody help~~~!!!!!!!!!
Avatar f tn m young and hearing that your granddaughter whose been in and out of detention centers is going to be a mom isnt something to be thrilled about, but how can I tell them without them ripping me to pieces? I dont know how many people will be able to give advice on this but anything will help!
1381451 tn?1288095766 So pretty much after that is when she broke up with me. I then tried to ask her to give me a second chance but she kept saying that she can't do that, that it would be to difficult for the both of us. This has been the toughest thing I have ever been through, all I want is her back. But I'm not sure if she will come back. I also asked her if we could talk yesterday and she said not right now we need our space first. I just wanna know what you guys think.
Avatar f tn So I broke up with my boyfriend after a somewhat rocky seven year relationship. The guy didnt treat me great. I often heard (mostly in rocky times) "your a ****** joke" and well he could yell for hours. Just couldnt calm down. There were lost of trust issues, compatibility issues but we were crazy about each other. We had so much history. So I persevered through the years with a positive outlook that has caused me palpitations and constant anxiety about the future.
Avatar f tn After all the bs i put up with and everything ive been through with his suicidal *** and his crazy ex baby mama and he says if it werent for this baby hed leave me... is he kidding!? Newsflash i wanted to leave so long ago and stuck it out bc i love him and 30 days before my due date he says that! I told him ok well a kid wont even make me stay with you so i need to start making new plans..
Avatar f tn Being attracted to other people is not something to break up over. Have you never looked at another guy while in a relationship? The point is that he's not acting on these things. I know one thing that helps my husband I is talking about our fantisies or attractions. The hubs has a weird thing for redheads so once in a while I'll buy a box of washout hair dye to surprise him. The point is give him some slack he's normal, it doesn't mean he's cheating or will cheat.
Avatar m tn I have tried a few times not to talk to her and each time i end up failing and messaging her. BUt everytime I do i just end up crying and in more pain. So you are right I do need to just leave her be. Thank you.
8924846 tn?1410572901 I'm considering leaving my bf. He is not the father of my baby, but wants to be since he is sterile and the actual father doesn't want to be involved. We dated on and off for a few years and I got pregnant while we were broken up and got back together before I found out. I had no plans of getting back with him it just kind of happened. I've been trying to convince myself I'm happy, because I know how excited him and his family are and I don't want a messy break up.
Avatar f tn I'm not talking about just stalking their Facebook page. I'm talking about deliberately destroying their other relationships so it will look like I am the best thing for them. I first started having really obsessive behavior towards a friend in 6th grade. We quickly became best friends and sat by eachother on the bus and at lunch. We had a whole group of friends at lunch, but one by one I started whispering rumors to her. Soon I got her to become annoyed with all of them.
Avatar f tn So i posted a little while ago, about having a boyfriend who talks down to me constantly. Well I finaly got up the courage and broke up with him. I tried to act like an adult, and not put the blame on him for anything in particular. I just told him I wasnt happy, and i think its because we dont see things the same way anymore. He yelled a bunch and told me he never wanted to hear from me again. Which I suppose is for the best. I just need some advice on moving on, some inpsirational words.
Avatar f tn Thank you, Your right it is her problem if she doesn't accept it. I wish I could wait till I have the baby to say anything to her, but I'm seeing her tonight. She wanted to spend time with her 3 granddaughters for the first time in 6 months or more. I don't even want to let her, but the spouse has already confirmed it. I've already told myself if she is rude in anyway at all I'm taking my girls home with me and she doesn't have to be apart of there life or the baby.
Avatar n tn t bear to break his heart and do what? Send him back home? What if I make a mistake? If I was to break up with him.. how the hell would I do this? It's scary to think about... but if it's not going to work in the long run, isn't waiting going to make it even worse for him? Sometimes I just want freedom to explore any other options, like meeting someone in my area who has all the qualities I want in someone. But then I think about how loved I am..
Avatar n tn Hello, I am dating this girl for quite a while now and she has been getting weird spots all over her body and feels it breaks out when ever we meet. There was a day where she had spots all over after I left her house where in I never even touched her. Please let me know what this could be. Can people be allergic to other people? if yes/no what could be the possible reason?
Avatar f tn I'm 36 weeks and I've lost my mucus plug and I'm 1cm dilated I've been have bad contractions what are ways to dilate for my water to break or ways for my water to break I've done castor oil, blue cohosh, black cohosh, and evening primrose oil please help
Avatar f tn Hey there....don't worry. I have a similar issue in a way. I'm obsessed with one person that means more than my life to me..Let me tell you this...if you aren't sure about how much they feel about you, try to loosen up. If you feel a pull towards them, it's good to be with those people, obsessive really can show you care...but try to limit yourself. If you get carried away, it can eat at you, make you do foolish things for yourself and them. I've made those mistakes.
Avatar f tn i didnt have a problem with this but because he lived with his parents i thought he would prefer coming to mine... anyway everyrime i went to his we had to sit and have dinner with his parents then sit with them or go up to his bedroom like teenagers.... more arguments started over petty things. Everytime we argued he would not talk to me for days giving me silent treatments. Or saying it was over. The last arguement caused him to end us for good. I was heart broken.
Avatar f tn re meant to give lots of good nutrients and calories to old people with no appetite, or cancer patients who are struggling to get enough calories in. This is a temporary thing, though - you need to work back into eating good healthy food and feeling better. Best thing you can do is keep going through your normal routine like you would if you were happy - shower in the morning, get out in the sunshine, walk, do things you enjoy, keep up with friends.
Avatar f tn but if you do not want to risk it then the best way to to break it is to not penatrate into the vagina but to rub the outside and your clitorus. that is a very effective way of maturbating. or inserting your finger only a small distance into your vagina. personally i prefer rubbing the outside of my vagina and clitorus compared to inserting a finger or two. as for the duration to have an orgasm, it is completely different for all women.