It has been about 10 months now and I still get over the eevnts )seperation/divorce and all the ramifications that go along with it. I never wanted this and being the recipient of the divorce makes it so much harder. I am deperessed and lack confidence. It doesn't seem to get better, I try to trick myself sometimes, but it doesn't always work. The bottom line is that I still love my wife (ex) very much.
I need to share my story and hopefully get some suggestions and support and wisdom out there. I recently turned 50. I my early 40's I suffered a series of losses in a short period of time - lost my dad, my mom, best friend from college, my sister had three brain tumors (3 separate operations and survived) my father in law, miscarriage, financial, etc. I never grieved all these losses, just pushed it inside so I could function. I wound up drinking to get thru the pain and became alcoholic.
That's good to hear that he is paying child support, so that can't be an issue holding up the divorce then. Maybe the alimony situation is unresolved?
I don't understand how you think if he can't see or talk to his kids now, that that will change after the divorce? Maybe your fiancé needs to put that inn order in the divorce, that he have visitation rights to his children, that's if he wants to keep up a good relationship with them.
Find your inner strength and come out fighting!! It is very hard and you will want to give up, but find your support and hang on tight to them. Surrond yourself with people that will cheer you on and not bring you more stress!!
Like said above, Copaxone should be able to finacially help.
God Bless and take care!!
She will say a sentance in a normal voice then repeat the last few words in a whisper. She has had a rough two years as her father was diagnosed with Bipolar Disease last year. Things are much better in the household since he's been on meds. This doesn't fall into the category of BP symptoms. Could this be ADHD, OCD or just simply anxiety from all she's been through.
My husband and i are going through a divorce.. im due in 3 weeks. My family is furious with him for what he has put me and our 6 yr old through. He called me today asking when the baby is born if he could come see her. I told him i would let him know when my family leaves the hospital.. if he shows up with my family there it wont be pretty. He is furious with me that i wont let him in the delivery room. He drained our checking and savings.. living with another woman.. hasnt given us a dime ..
I need a few words of support for going cold turkey on day 2. I have been taking oxys for almost 2 years now about 80 mg almost everyday. Maybe not sound like a lot to some, but it is enough to leave me feeling like crap today. Shakey, sweaty, the worst head ache in the word, sore back and legs, and very agitated. But more than anything physical, I am scared about the mental aspect of my addiction. What would you all suggest for turning off my brain?
During an argument with my husband he said he will move out of state and not be in my child's life. I'm 30 weeks pregnant. I have recently calmly asked him if he meant it and he said yes. He does not want drama and thinks that I will turn our child against him. That is a complete lie I have never once said anything degrading humiliating or hurtful about my husband to anyone no matter how angry I was or hurt.
Let him know that pregnancy is hard on a woman and you need all the support and understanding you can get. Stress and unhappiness will do no good for your baby. And your baby is your miracle together so it's living proof that you guys love each other and that's why you're married! As you progress in pregnancy, things might be more and more uncomfortable for you and having a loving support is so important. My husband never argues with me... he makes sure I'm well taken care of.
Currently going thru a divorce and hope soon to marry the man of my dreams. I suffered an ectopic pregnancy seven years ago. Tried an invitro that failed and also artificial insermination that failed. When I marry my sweet man we will like to try again. He is 49 and I am 46 soon to turn 47. He has a son from a former marriage. Is there hope for me to get pregnant naturally at my age. I do get my period pretty regularly every month.
I'm 39+2 days pregnant and need all the emotional support i can get. The pregnancy hasnt been easy to this day because i m going through a divorce while taking care of a two year old and no help (emotional and financial) from the father. Please pray for me so i can get through this !!!!
The consult usually costs about $250. If her husband was the bread winner an attorney can file for some support until the divorce is final. Also will be able to tell her if they can make the husband pay her attorney fees. It would probably be worth it just to get some initial advise. When children are involved it's almost impossible to do it without legal advise.
It sounds like it's pretty clear. He's not willing to respect you, and he knows he can get away with lip service to pacify you or he'd have stopped all this behavior like he said he would. He seems to view you as a pushover. And your daughter's grown up seeing this behavior regardless of how much or how little she actually knows. If you're unhappy and unable to be the best you for your daughter and for you, and you feel divorce is right for you, then go for it.
I have a 13 month old and me and my bf are kind of all each other have as far as friends go. I went through a divorce a few years ago and everyone we knew together took his side so i dont talk to or see anyone anymore. Lately I've been craving company that isnt my bf or his mom or my daughter but its so hard to meet new people and make friends. Anyone else in this situation? How did you make / meet new friends?
Thanks for your kind words frenchie, yes I have good support around me but it is hard where I was always so active, it's scary when you loose the use of your body and you struggle to do the simplest of things. What is more scary is that living in England with NHS you assume that if you get sick to this severity that you would be having medical support and some kind of care plan put into place to help and support you.
Since the day I got married I had problem with my in laws because they are so actively/passively aggressive and manipulative. They always told hurting words to me and I spend almost two years each night crying to myself and sometimes complaining to my hubby. My hubby used to console me but could tell nothing to his parents or sister about their wrong behavior to me.
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