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Honestly...probably over half of these women are in no way, shape or form to suggest a divorce if they haven't gotten to the wife status. There are too many girlfriends or baby mamas who are in messed up situations to understand yours. You don't give in like that, a marriage is a UNION that isn't always rosy. I would only consider leaving if there were physical abuse. Talk to him about it, let him know how you feel, if that doesn't work take a break and try again later.
Marriage is suppose to be "Until Death Us Part" not until he makes you sad, mad, or makes you cry. Pregnant or not. So, no I believe you should "let him go". You should tell him know how you feel. I know you're just looking for advice, but remember that's a choice YOU would have to live with. Praying for you and your marriage & Congrats on your baby!
don't we mothers who stayed in horrible marriages ever realize that we do it out of inadequacies in ourselves rather than for our children and that"s why _maybe_ our children became angry and estranged from us???
I've heard of men hurting or killing their children too. When women do it, it just gets more press. Usually it's a divorce or break up situation and the person can't handle anything at that point. Or they are on drugs. So sad that some people feel like they have no support.
My son is having a tremendously hard time adjusting to the divorce and continually is creating a caustic environment for me and my daughter. I spend 90% of my time trying to mollify him and parent out of fear. There is hardly anything left for my daughter and she is beginning to resent it and act out. My son is in therapy. I am in therapy. My daughter visits the school counselors. It is an unbearable existence. Might anyone have some helpful advice?
Two children hers, we had two of our own. Due to the economic downturn and job loss I had to take a job overseas without family.
She found out 2.5 months after I was gone that she needed a total hysterectomy. I wanted to be there for the surgery and a few days for recovery...unable to due to location etc.
Surgery completed and then I noticed a major change......even from a very long distance away. She was with relatives as it was safe during my 1 year absence.
We did not want a generation of narcissists. Sometimes they are children of divorce, but not always; sometimes they are children of well-educated professionals, but not always. I can't imagine how rude they must be to each other, or what kind of parents they will be. Maybe medhelp could set up a message board for us.
Hitting and verbally abusing you in front of the children is also abusing the innocent children that have to witness their aunt being hurt. You and these children have experience how devistating and life changing results from a loss through death.
I understand you love him, but love should't hurt (physically). This is not love, but abuse.
Also, as a result from being physically and verbally abuse, it affects all aspects of your life as a person: self esteem, appearance, fear to speak.
Hello ladies I'm 25yr pregnant with my second baby:) but this isn't about me. It's about my oldest sister she's 35 she took care of all of us when my mom would go to work. And she called me to and asked me for my advice. She's married to her husband they have 3 children andshe has another boy from a previous relationship before she met her current husband. Well she had her last baby 4 yrs ago and was on birth control since than.
My wife is emotionally abusive to our children. They are older now, but this has be ongoing for years and has escalated continuously. I have always been there to act as a buffer, but I feel extremely guilty for allowing it to go on for so many years and not removing the kids from her via divorce. My daughter is not speaking to her mother and looking for an apartment.
He told me its hard, he cat just have a divorce that easy. If he was olf and had children and was married for a long time i would just leave him. But hes young and has no children. Hasnt even been married for a year. He has even told me he likes me a lot and even asked me if i was in love. But of course i didnt answer that. I need advice what do i do? no i dont wanna leave him. What can i do to help him get a divorce?
Hi, again thanks a lot to all of you. i was so ashamed about what my husband did that I could not tell anyone even my family. it helps me a lot to get it out of me. I feel less lonely. My family isn't around. I don't want either to tell them to protect my children.
I too, would prefer You not have had an affair. That being said:
You have given this Marriage 15 years - You have ALREADY borne the pain. What You have NOT done is feel/learn all You are beyond that pain.
I hope the Children will be okay. Children always suffer in a divorce. You don't say how old the Children are but You have dealt with the Marriage for 15 years. Perhaps You could wait until the Children have begun Their own lives?
my husband started drinking heavily and we used to fight alot he used to get agressive and try to start arguments and of course the angrier i got the more heated the fights would get but it was only on his days off and at home i never really thought about separation or divorce because he was still providing even though he drank and we would fight nonstop he never stopped being responsible with the bills and i think that unless a man is cheating anything can be fixed i know its different when yo
I agree, that the judicial system DOES favor the children staying with the mother. Although, I do NOT think it's fair. The judges are biased BIG TIME-the old fashioned ones anyway. Some of the women don't deserve the children because, sometimes, they are more screwed up than the father is. The judges have a hard time accepting the fact that the children are sometimes better off with the fathers.
My daughter and her hubby are getting a divorce. In this state you gotta come up with 2600.00 minimum to get a divorce attorney. Is it like this all over?
Umm, as young teens - they are also capable of using this for their own needs.
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