Dealing with miscarriage grief
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Meanwhile the whole time this has happened my loving boyfriend and Father was with me the whole time. Been told everything is fine with me and it was probably a one off and we will be able to try again and likely to have a normal pregnancy. It'll certainly be something I'll never forget, especially what I saw in that examination room.
at the sametime im trying to get pregnant again but havent had any luck since after my miscarriage my period is all over the place..can any one advice me on how i can deal with all this..im just fustrated at this point..
I am now pregnant again at 6 weeks with our rainbow baby. For those you dont know that term its a baby straight after miscarriage. Any advice to how i can deal with my anxiety that i have about this baby?
I had a miscarriage at the end of January of this year. I've had trouble dealing with it. I found out the day i had my miscarriage there were twins . I was 9 weeks. the ultrasound showed me at 4 1/2 weeks the babies had stopped growing. I'll never know what they were. I want to do something to remember them but not sure what to do.
I also have had multiple miscarriages..6 as well. I hit a period where I went into a very dark place and required therapy to get through it. It was hard emotionally, no question. What kept me moving forward was really that there was no other option. I had to keep trying in order to have that baby I wanted to very badly. After my 5th loss I did indeed have a healthy pregnancy and now have an amazing 13 month old little boy. Looking back on it I can tell you I would do it all again...
Just like falling in love takes time so does dealing with a passing of a loved one.Just opposite ways of feeling.Love and loss,two parts of life that both hurt.For loving anyone or anything,such as a pet can lead to pain.All feelings lead to pain and despair,eventually.So do we stop feeling,stop loving,stop caring,no we just learn to adjust to our new lives without that loved one that pet,that friend.whom ever.Death ends a life,not a relationship.
Wow that's a difficult situation.first just be there for her during her grief..then in a week or so. I would talk to her...she's your friend tell her the truth...ask her what would be her desire...would it make her more comfortable to share in this experience with you or for you to chill out with the baby talk around her. Either way don't you take it personal...she is dealing with a lot of emotions right now. She will eventually come around. Gods peace to you both.
t, it moves on from grief to something more than
Hey I just had my miscarriage 2 days ago and I'm learn and dealing with it better but the baby's father he's not doing so well.
Maybe you can find a grief counselor. My HMO has a specialist in grief issues related to fertility, who works in the ob-gyn department. I had several appointments with her and it helped a lot. The first appointment, I basically just cried. It's helpful to talk to someone who has dealt a lot with grief issues that are specifically related with fertility, if that is what you're going through. I think that kind of grief is like no other kind. I hope you can find someone.
You must replace your ex with a love of your wounded inner child. Treat your hurt feelings not with self-criticism, but as a cherished child that it is your new job to take exquisite care of. Physician, tend thy own wound.
Third: Getting over someone is all about time management. Recognize that this is your full time job. Time management is pain management. Discover what things help you the most and do them more. What parts of the day are the most painful? Plan them differently.
I am so sorry for your loss. Your post doesn't say how far along you were.
I recently (February 15th,2012) suffered my 6th miscarriage. I have 3 living children & also had stillborn twins who were born (induced) at 24 weeks after their heats had stopped. The most recent miscarriage was at about 8 weeks and was a tubal pregnancy which I had surgery for on February 15th but by the time they did the surgery the baby had passed from the tube into my uterus.
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