Complaining in laws
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I am 14 wks and still haven't told my in laws that I'm pregnant again. I see them every day bc i pick up their other granddaughter from the bus stop with my girl and take her to their house.I think they know because my body had started changing already and I'm trying to hide it but idk. Me and the hubs arent an item but i feel like we should tell them together.
My husband and I told my in-laws together, that's how he wanted it. Maybe you can ask your husband if he has a special way he would like to tell them? Good luck and best wishes!
What I keep reading in what you are writing that bothers me is NOT what your mother in law is doing but in how your husband handles her and you both. He is very --- Well, OVER protective of her. I'm a mother and I have sons. I am also a wife. It is right for you and your husband to be a unit. Parents are secondary outside of your marital union. If you feel your husband is leaving you too often to go there---- I think that is a valid concern if it is indeed excessive.
So I had like 6 people in the waiting room and my sister was the lucky number two I picked to come in with us. So keep in mind they might now even be aloud in.
And we are already fighting because i dont want his parents at the hospital at all after birth. I want to relax. Im not close to them and i feel that the time in the hospital should be for the household members to bond only. He wants them there. I want noone there except him and my children.
You have choices here.
You and your husband and child could move in with your mother until March. She's only 30 minutes away. In many places in the country, people expect to drive 30 minutes or more to work. It's not a big deal.
You could rent a very cheap apartment until March.
My in laws were the same way i hated how every single person in the family had to come the same night my baby boy was born. I had like 10 different familys come visit me in one night and they would get offended if i wanted to be alone to breast feed. I achually just started crying because i was so stressed. I just wanted to be alone with my husband and my baby boy. But just talk to your husband or the babys dad and tell him how you feel im more than sure he will back you up.
Im all jumbled up at this point. I am moving in with my soon to be in laws. His dad doesn't care for me much though. His mom just threw my baby shower but we argued over small things which frustrated me. They go drive far to pick up a little kid that isn't even my fiances and keep him for weekends at a time. They try to push him to the little boy but they need to be pushing that dna test.
The funniest part is whenever we talk to her about the baby she acts like she dont want to hear. After the second doctos visit(earlier in my preg) she tells me she use to not want to be around people with kids or pregnant women cause she could never concieve. she adopted all 4 her kids as a result. I think there is a lil jealousy there as well which is ridiculous!
i cant stand my in laws right now!..i went out with them for a meal last night n all my mother in law did was give me dirty looks..she hates the fact that iv been goin to my mums more throughout this pregnancy,my mum only lives 40mins away frm me and she keeps tellin me hw her house is too far for me to travel to,is it ****!she told me of once brfore too for goin to my own mothers house,i mean who the hell is she to tell me to stay away from my own mother!!!!
How do you guys deal with your in-laws? Is it a good or bad relationship? Are they supportive? What is their influence in your childs life/what is it going to be?
I'm currently having a difficult time with mine.. I really struggle with how they do things & I accept that it's what works for their family, but not what I want for mine.. how do you compromise?
Sounds horrible for you... in- laws always think they know best.... my ex- in-laws would have
Been exactly like yours.... glad I got out when I did.
You probably really need to get a wriggle in and
Find your own place (easier said than done) but they won't change cause they don't think
Their in the wrong..
My sister was a child minder a few years ago and had my brothers little girl... but she though
She could just do what she wanted ....
I recently found out that I was pregnant and from the beginning, things have been rocky with the in-laws. The comments have ranged from whether or not this is the right time for a baby (big issue) to whether or not I will go back to work (none of her business). In addition, she has told me that she will come two or three days per week to watch the baby for me, something I don’t want or need.
Please help before I lose my mind….
My in laws have a 4 yr old daughter. I'm 36 weeks with our first child. The in laws don't discipline the 4 yr old AT ALL and constantly complain about other kids misbehavior although theirs is the same. Very nervous that they will spank my child for things that they don't spank their own for. They did spank their other children. While I'm not opposed to spanking my child, I do not like the idea of someone spanking her for things that they didn't spank their for.
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