when we argued, i always ended say i want to break up, but she dooesnt want to. she is so patient to me even she know about my BPD. i have a bad enough mood swing, but i think she is my soulmate because she always be able to calm me down. the way she look at me makes me believe that she loves me and will end up in good relationship that we'll grow old together. 6 months ago, she cheated and left me, im so depressed because she treated me really bad.
Yayy so exciting I truely am lucky to have found my soulmate the date i wanted to choose he told me as if he came up with it but im pretty sure ive mentioned it before lol! Looks like next April if Gods will, I will marry the love of my life! Our little man will be almost 1 and I'm so excited to see him in a tux with his Daddy lol!
Those you are closest to----------- like your parents, maybe one friend, and eventually your spouse----- those top relationships sit on the top. And it moves down from there. When you go through something traumatic, you have less energy to deal with those on the lower steps or tiers. After only two months, you can't expect to be at the top yet.
Hi there, So, you are having a baby with him, is that right? Are you both teenagers? Lots of big things coming your way very soon. Are you living with his parents too or are you are with yours and he's with his? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just trying to understand.
Do you have any support from your own family?
On the surface, I think it is smart to expect certain things out of the father of our children.
Get physically active and fill up your time with things that can make you happy. Do things that are different from the things you did with him. Make some new friends from a different group of people. Change your life in a positive direction and don't give yourself much time alone- even much time to think!! All you can do is distract yourself-- but the funny thing, is that the longer you do this, the better it works. And one day, you will wake up and find that your heart aches less.
Do comfort food! Ur favorite food that always cheers u up, but do something.
Being attracted to other people is not something to break up over. Have you never looked at another guy while in a relationship? The point is that he's not acting on these things. I know one thing that helps my husband I is talking about our fantisies or attractions. The hubs has a weird thing for redheads so once in a while I'll buy a box of washout hair dye to surprise him. The point is give him some slack he's normal, it doesn't mean he's cheating or will cheat.
You need to realize what it is about YOU that causes You to want SomeOne of such poor character. You have choices and You are CHOOSING to pine away over this guy. He Is NOT Your SoulMate - a 'soulmate' does NOT cheat on the relationship. "SoulMates" are made - They GROW out of a meaningful relationship/commitment - and it takes years of this growth to BECOME SoulMates.
Marriages need Love, Trust, Honor, Respect and Desire.
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