Being attracted to other people is not something to break up over. Have you never looked at another guy while in a relationship? The point is that he's not acting on these things. I know one thing that helps my husband I is talking about our fantisies or attractions. The hubs has a weird thing for redheads so once in a while I'll buy a box of washout hair dye to surprise him. The point is give him some slack he's normal, it doesn't mean he's cheating or will cheat.
Those you are closest to----------- like your parents, maybe one friend, and eventually your spouse----- those top relationships sit on the top. And it moves down from there. When you go through something traumatic, you have less energy to deal with those on the lower steps or tiers. After only two months, you can't expect to be at the top yet.
I had a break up approx 6 weeks ago. I thought this was the gal i was going to marry. we were together for 2 years, at times it was on/off but never truly off. This time it is off! I know she has found someone else and i have not. I can not seem to shake the feelings of missing her, at times it really hurts. I have been divorced for 12 years. My kids are 18, 17 and 15. Their mother has quite a few mental challenges.
Lol , the second time did they send you to the hospital like what happened after it broke ?
Thank you.
Yes, I think that's what bothers me most, is with everything the two of us have been through together, and the things that he promised and proposed that we start working on for our future together, this whole no contact thing is what bothers me. It isn't necessarily that he has basically left me, and the relationship ended.
Hi there, So, you are having a baby with him, is that right? Are you both teenagers? Lots of big things coming your way very soon. Are you living with his parents too or are you are with yours and he's with his? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just trying to understand.
Do you have any support from your own family?
On the surface, I think it is smart to expect certain things out of the father of our children.
Get physically active and fill up your time with things that can make you happy. Do things that are different from the things you did with him. Make some new friends from a different group of people. Change your life in a positive direction and don't give yourself much time alone- even much time to think!! All you can do is distract yourself-- but the funny thing, is that the longer you do this, the better it works. And one day, you will wake up and find that your heart aches less.
I'm going threw something similar. I'm 22 weeks pregnant and my baby's father just started seeing someone else 2 weeks ago. It's been extremely stressful for me and makes me resent him not the baby. Our baby's are blessings and innocent. But I look at it as he doesn't deserve me or my love if he walks out on us. It's his lose not ours. If he's not man enough to stick around he doesn't deserve you!
How old are you?
Your present marriage was begon on shaky ground, so it isn't any surprise that it is falling apart.
I don't think you should stay with either guy.
Do you have a problem with being alone? You're basically man-hopping without a break. You need to do some SERIOUS soul-searching about what is going on with you.
Definitely DON'T start anything with a co-worker. For starts, work is work, not a place to be looking for potential prospects to date.
The extent of the relationship can cause a break up to be short and sweet. And some people have a hard time dealing with other people's emotions and just break it off abruptly and quickly to deal with as little of that as possible.
Going through a difficult time is a test to a relationship. Very many will NOT survive a tough time. Not all relationships are meant to last and we date to learn these things about people. Maybe if someone is very emotional, depressed, etc.
Is amazing!i just all should know that!lol so he's at work..we were texting back and forth and talking about how excited and happy we are to be starting our family and I say.."hey baby i sure would like an apple juice..and maybe a bottled water..and maybe some of those honey BBQ twist frito chips:)" and what I meant was when he got off maybe he could pick some up on his way home...
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