Hi there, So, you are having a baby with him, is that right? Are you both teenagers? Lots of big things coming your way very soon. Are you living with his parents too or are you are with yours and he's with his? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just trying to understand.
Do you have any support from your own family?
On the surface, I think it is smart to expect certain things out of the father of our children.
Those you are closest to----------- like your parents, maybe one friend, and eventually your spouse----- those top relationships sit on the top. And it moves down from there. When you go through something traumatic, you have less energy to deal with those on the lower steps or tiers. After only two months, you can't expect to be at the top yet.
I kmow how you feel and I had to push my self clean even if you just clean up one room at a time dont do to much since your so far along but im 19 weeks and 5 days... I try to do dishes right after I finish a meal and clean the kitchen if im not to tired or set an alarm to remind me because I forget alot ... just take easy mama one day at a time ...
Get physically active and fill up your time with things that can make you happy. Do things that are different from the things you did with him. Make some new friends from a different group of people. Change your life in a positive direction and don't give yourself much time alone- even much time to think!! All you can do is distract yourself-- but the funny thing, is that the longer you do this, the better it works. And one day, you will wake up and find that your heart aches less.
s the best decision to attend a haunted house especially because your so far along. Not only may being scared trigger something but other people around you are very careless about what they do while in a haunted house since theyre scared & just worried about getting away from the monster. They Could accidentally run into you our hit your belly on accident or any number of things is just very risky in my opinion. I love haunted houses myself and I'm kinda bummed I won't be able to go.
I just broke up with my babys becuz we fight and argue at least once a day he is always so negative about everything nd puts way to much stress on me and even now that I'm 18 weeks pregnant and barely leave the house questions my every move even though I've never given him a reason not to trust md but he keeps telling me I doing the wrong thing and just breaking up our family now I'm not sure but I don't like the way he makes me feel about myself sometime but am I in the wrong?
My pdoc yesterday told me it's possible to have a psychotic break from too severe anxiety. This scares me bad, what is that? Does that mean I'll go crazy and hurt someone? Myself? Has anyone ever had one of these? Also is there anyone here that has had several months of severe anxiety, then slowly goes back to several months of calm? I'm afraid this feeling will last forever. Just to make sure I'm experiencing this "anxiety" what does it feel like to u all?
Ladies I'm 26yrs old n 33wks with my first child. Recently my boyfriend n I had a terrible break up n I'm back at my mothers house. Its been really hard on me because he was the sole provider while I finished school. I mean I feel I'm able to work but what job will hire me this far along in my pregnancy. I'm having my baby shower soon n saved some money but I still have bills n needs n wants 4 my daughter.
So we get to his friends house and people keep showing up. It turned into a house party. People were staring at me. (At the time I was 35 weeks) Some guy went up to hubby asking him why I was there and shouldn't I be at home?! Hubby got upset and said you know just because she's pregnant doesn't mean she can't do things and have fun and plus she's my driver. I'm not having her drive back and forth and be at home all alone. Dude didn't have nothing to say.
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