i understand if she feels a lot of different ways and feeling guilty or sad or whatever BUT she needs to TELL you exactly what she's feeling so that you can work thru it TOGETHER. and if you guys can't stick this out together, then how is a marriage going to survive? you can't just push the other one away and think thats okay. i wouldnt sit around waiting for her to come around.
My fiance and I aren't planning on getting married for another couple of years but I am still giving our baby our last name cause its his baby. Whether we do get married or break up, that's not gonna change. Just think about it carefully before making your decision. Cause once you settle with a last name, it goes on the birth certificate and SS card and can be kinda expensive to fix.
Then I would book a trip with my girlfriends and go on vacation. I would also call up some old friends and go to dinner or go out. I made sure I kept myself distracted all the time. At some point you find yourself in a much better place. Seven years is a long time and it will take some time to grieve the loss of this relationship, but don't fret, it will happen. Just give yourself some time, one month is not really that long. Good luck.
If he was the one, then why did you break up with him??? If he loved you just as much, he probably would've waited for you to get your education. Let's see.....a woman trying to "better" herself, what man wouldn't admire and respect that AND love you more for it?
Being attracted to other people is not something to break up over. Have you never looked at another guy while in a relationship? The point is that he's not acting on these things. I know one thing that helps my husband I is talking about our fantisies or attractions. The hubs has a weird thing for redheads so once in a while I'll buy a box of washout hair dye to surprise him. The point is give him some slack he's normal, it doesn't mean he's cheating or will cheat.
You bet. Get busy. Go out with your girlfriends. Join a hiking or biking or tennis club. Get physically active and fill up your time with things that can make you happy. Do things that are different from the things you did with him. Make some new friends from a different group of people. Change your life in a positive direction and don't give yourself much time alone- even much time to think!!
Hi there, So, you are having a baby with him, is that right? Are you both teenagers? Lots of big things coming your way very soon. Are you living with his parents too or are you are with yours and he's with his? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just trying to understand.
Do you have any support from your own family?
On the surface, I think it is smart to expect certain things out of the father of our children.
up when in relationships more so than us women, and many times when they have seen a man they look up to get hurt badly it is even worse. It is up to you to decide if you want to try to "break down this wall" and up to him if he wants to let you. Tough decision for both of you. I hope the best for you both.
I know its stupid but it is what happened. So i was talking to her and trying to get her worked up. It basically turned into cyber sex. In the middle of it though it hit me. What was I doing? So i stopped the conversation and told the girl i dont want to talk anymore. I went straight to my girlfriends house and told her what had happend. She first said that it was ok. but later that night she told me how upset she was.
He said it is his point and if I am not happy to go with that I can break up, but he does not want to break up. As I see he is not considering going to any compromise or I don’t know. I would like to hear your opinion. I love this guy so much, but I believe in marriage and its is important for me. Also he mentioned if I’m going to break up with the person I love over this marriage issue – there is something wrong with me. Advice?
I have been married for 20 yrs. Have been with one other person 10 yrs. PRIOR to marriage. Discovered husband has been having affair for almost a year, sex with her just 2 months ago. I had STD testing which showed positive for 1 (3.07) and 2 (1.47). Husband finally went to be tested, he came back NEG.for 2 (wasn't tested for 1 as he knew he'd be positive since he has had coldsores since childhood.
My questions are: Is it possible that I do not have HSV 2?
I think it depends on where your wife's break outs are as to if a condom will protect you or not. HPV never clears. I have had it for 14 years... didn't know it because it was on my lower back and 3 doctors said it was shingles. Every time I'd get really stressed about something, I'd have another break out. I finally got a correct diagnosis a few weeks ago and got put on Valtrex, and haven't had a breakout since then. I take it every day.
t make these statistics up------- almost every single relationship that starts while someone is still married ends in divorce/break up itself. Why do that to yourself? It is setting yourself up for failure. It just isn't worth it.
I could tell you how wrong it is that you want this man that has a family at home that is counting on him.
I just experienced a condom breakage being the receptive partner during anal sex. Just as he was going inside of me I heard a pop he pulled out immediately, and I told him I was done. He is a married, im assuming "bi-sexual" man. Luckily he was only inside of me no more than 5-10, 15 seconds at the most. Of Course he assures me he is clean and tells me he doesnt have unprotected sex too risky.
I'm sorry this is bothering you. Of course I don't have to say there isn't any logic to you feeling this way, you married the girl and therefore won over any other guy. But let's look at the whole situation. Some questions:
She has only had two partners in her life? Or, you aren't bothered by any person she might have dated before you met, but are just by this guy? Was the breakup of your choosing? Did you feel (emotionally) that you were really broken up?
Recommended
