i agree on working towards a marriage. and in saying that, do you want your partner to push you away if you were married? if you were married you are together thru THICK AND THIN no matter what. and its not right to push the other partner away because of having surgery and your feeling differnet emotions etc. i understand if she feels a lot of different ways and feeling guilty or sad or whatever BUT she needs to TELL you exactly what she's feeling so that you can work thru it TOGETHER.
So I broke up with my boyfriend after a somewhat rocky seven year relationship. The guy didnt treat me great. I often heard (mostly in rocky times) "your a ****** joke" and well he could yell for hours. Just couldnt calm down. There were lost of trust issues, compatibility issues but we were crazy about each other. We had so much history. So I persevered through the years with a positive outlook that has caused me palpitations and constant anxiety about the future.
But today i have been going to the bathroom alot and after everytime i pee i have a contraction bad so is it my water leaking out or just pee? Like i feel like my water us going to break with every step i take or every move i make.
And one day, you will wake up and find that your heart aches less. And each day will get better. But you have to work at it otherwise you will just keep hurting. I know it doesn't help- but just about everyone has gone through this in their life--and sooner or later it gets better- and you feel you learned something from it. Meanwhile- just don't let your brain and heart work together to bring you down. Get busy--and eventually you will forget about the pain- and find someone else.
Hi there, So, you are having a baby with him, is that right? Are you both teenagers? Lots of big things coming your way very soon. Are you living with his parents too or are you are with yours and he's with his? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just trying to understand.
Do you have any support from your own family?
On the surface, I think it is smart to expect certain things out of the father of our children.
I think you should tell her that you understand how she feels and will respect those feelings and not bother her anymore, and stand by these words. If she truly loves you and there is just a glimmer of her wanting to work thru this, then your absence will make it happen. She needs to "miss you" so that she can think about everything. Your absence may make her realize that she can get over this, if not, then you just have to accept that it's over, learn by it and move on.
I don't know you, but I could hear you singing!! Thanks for the smile. And we WILL survive, and SVR too!!!
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