how to find out if divorce papers have been filed

How expensive is that? To file your own papers? I guess my daughters hubby filed, he has help from mom. She has to respond but cannot get help anywhere, and I just do not have that kind of cash to just give her. She was printing out paperwork off the court website. They have no property and already live separately bot share the kids. He wants child support, her to foot half the bills and carry insurance on the kids. He was the principal breadwinner when they were together. Just an awful mess.

I have the divorce papers in hand. My husband will be coming over to talk tonight. Where I will be laying down the law. I want to work thru this because I do love him And he is good to me. Other than the fact the yard cheated on me with a icky stripper.. things wont be there same. But I'm willing to try. For the kids if nothing else.. he will be tested for every std under the sun ( even those I have 2 that I was honest about)...

But anyways I filed for divorce and served him the papers but now it’s like I don’t know what to feel. Like I’m glad to be getting a divorce but now i don’t know what to feel about him. Do I love him as a friend or what? I don’t know. Anyway if someone went through something similar some advice would be great. Thank you.

I do know that in the state of Florida if you're married, your baby gets your husbands last name.. But! If you can prove you've been separated then it may change the circumstances a little. Have you filed for a divorce and it's in motion?

Things got so bad I had to get a restraining order against him.

You may be able to file but not go to court until after baby is here. In divorce papers they will set up child support, visitation, medical support for baby etc. but do yourself a favor and when they set child support immediately go to your child support office and have all checks go through state that way he and you is protected.

A wk or so ago I posted that I'm in the process of getting a divorce and my current bf is my baby's father. My lawyer advised that he would have to put in my divorce papers that I'm pregnant but I didn't want my ex to find out or he won't be cooperative....to make this short, I asked if I should get another lawyers opinion and the majority response was yes so I did and my new lawyer didn't even ask if I was currently pregnant so I didn't say anything.

t really an answer to your question however as drunk.and high as I have been/stayed/ never once filed for divorce ... I never even called my wife a b:$:@!ch until today when she drove off .. I gotta clean up.. I love her so much but I do feel she acted irrational and was more than likely influenced by her mom (hoosux)leading her to a drastic life altering decision... I always said I'd kill myself if she left ...

So anyway I hoped that my husband would have sat there with me and we would have figured out what to do. But he lost his mind saying that I new it had been filed and that he was leaving. **** you is what he said. All of the blame for all the problems were always my fault.

Well, lets see where do i actually begin? My husband left on January 5th for another deployment to Iraq for a year. Now, i understand it's his job and all but i hate it! We have been together 5 years now and i had actually filed divorce papers back in September 08'. We decided to keep trying to make our marriage work and i stopped the divorce process. Now our problems don't lie with sex or money, like most couples with issues.

I just try to focus on my baby and realize that if he wanted to leave I could do nothing but keep it moving.

I’m married by law but I am getting a divorce and I have already filed the paperwork and he has been served the papers as well

no you dont have to but if he cares at all about you or the babies im sure it would mean alot to him if he would be apart of that

I've got the divorce papers filled out, I just need him to agree to sign them, because I would like to file them as jointly because I heard it goes more smoothly than filing single. What would be the best most calm way to approach him to sign the papers as joint. I was thinking about having my parents and his sit down with us to have him sign them. To keep a calm environment. Since I'm afraid he'll lash out and refuse to sign the papers or tear them up.

I finally feel a little better and in peace now that i know how she feels and i dont have to try or stress myself out to work things out as i keep hitting a dead end. I'm going to move forward with my kids and try to be happy. I appreaciate everyone that has posted there comments and advice on here it has help me alot to deal with this situtation.....i cant thank ya'll enough. I will keep in touch!

i was told we could pull the papers up our selves and have them ran in the paper and filled..but will have to find out for sure..im just scared that if they dint get divorced then she could have some kind of rights to my baby..i am un able to work due to a car accident 2yrs ago and she owns her own house and property and is manager at her job..all i have is $250 a mnth i recieve from the drunk driver who hit me untilthe case is settled and he works and pays all at our new house..

You do not have to wait for the divorce to be final. By then it'll be too late anyways. Go be seen off base if that is your hang up and pay out of pocket at a clinic somewhere.

10 but they spelled his las name wrong on the papers they filed with the court even though ALL the papers i had filled out has it spelled correctly. anyways when i called on sept.3rd they said they corrected the mistake and refiled the papers. how long do you think the papers will take to get to him.

I know his the father of your chikd but you need to put your foot down. if he wants to divorce you id take him to court. Save the mrssages. Take pictures of the mess and things he took and show them how bad of a father and man he is stressing a women out. You also have proof from the hospital that they made him leave thats how bad he is. Good luck momma. Im here if you need anythin. Praying for you big time.

I'm sorry, I became too rattled with this one...

Here in Australia custody rights happen with the divorce usually (its in our divorce papers) but it can happen at any time if the need arises, just means more money and lawyer/court costs. And like mizzztaylor said, unless they are adopted they still have to pay child support, don't let him get out of that one, thats what alot of these men try to do, think if they have nothing to do with them they won't have to pay for them.

Well in my opinion, you guys probably need counseling! It is a good thing to use even if you aren't on the verge of leaving, but, even more important if you are! It can really help! There is no shame in taking that step to get help! Hope everything goes well for you and that y'all get some peace and stability in your marriage!!

I moved in with friends and said that I was done. Luckily we decided to work things out and read some books together and found out how to work as a team so we didn't go through with it. But if you're in a position that you're ready to leave, find friends or find a women's shelter or family, just somewhere you go can go. And then find a public place for you to meet. And let him know you're done and he will be reviving divorce papers soon. Keep it as short as possible.

the mental aspect of it, all i want to do is eat 3, snort 2 and smoke until i nod out. but i have been battling that want for the last 96 hours and so far i am winning!!!!! God please.....PLEASE give me the strength to keep winning. i cannot lose this time around. i have everything to gain, and EVERYTHING to lose. but i am going to win. i am i am i am!!!!!

I had a similar issue where I wasn't technically divorced yet when I got pregnant, at the hospital they told me my husband would have to come sign papers before we could leave saying he knew it wasn't his baby so my son could take my boyfriends last name!

You don't have to allow anyone in the delivery room that you do not want in there. Just let your nurses and doctors know. Most hospitals have a code word you can set up and if the person doesn't know it they aren't allowed in or to get any information about you or the baby. I didn't allow my sons biological father in the delivery room either. Just make sure you let them know as soon as you get there and in your room. Good luck!

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