We do feel lost after something like this, but you have to realize that you have an awful lot to offer the right person, who is still out there waiting for you to come along. Don't beat yourself up
over this, try to
learn from it. I think the first thing you need to
do is realize that you can enjoy your own company for now. Once we can be happy with ourselves, we develop a whole new attitude and you will appear, and feel more confident.