divorce advice with no children

Hi there I have been seperated for 6 months, going through the trials of a complicated divorce.. I have a 10yr old son who went through angry outburts a couple of months ago as he did not want to see his father (his father hit him in anger on a visit), through counsellors recomendation I told my son that he did not have to visit with him until he was ready to see him.. Since then his outbursts have stopped and he seems much happier in himself..

But I fell out of love with my husband many years ago and have been putting up with all this for the sake of the children, but even now the children are unhappy and my son wants to leave because of it all. I have mentioned couseling, but he only laughed and walked away. Yes I know it is wrong not to tell my daughter, but I also think it's wrong to tell her, "I'm sorry I was all doped up and don't know your real daddy's name." So we decided this was a better result.

Not just him walking away with money and the health ins.... No judge would allow this to happen with your medical condition.

I left my ex husband in Feb 2011, moving my two children (then 2.5 & 4.5) in with my parents. They visited their father most weekends. In March 2011, their father started dating, all whilst still harassing me - either Telling me how much we needed to be together, or how much it was all my fault. I filed for divorce on emotional abuse grounds - to myself and son (the youngest).

I'd personally seek legal advice as it is his child and some states/countries have very specific policies on parents taking children away. As horrible as it is that he doesn't want to be with you that doesn't automatically make him a bad father and it doesn't give you the right still to take away his rights. Alternatively you could get his consent to move and that way u won't have legal hassles depending how amicable things are.

If dad is willing what you could do is see about having it so the kids alternate extra days of alone time with either of you, That way they get the extra attention they were used to the parental bonds are preserved and everyones nerves are assuaged. It sounds silly but it makes for more stable children.

My daughter and her hubby are getting a divorce. In this state you gotta come up with 2600.00 minimum to get a divorce attorney. Is it like this all over?

He told me its hard, he cat just have a divorce that easy. If he was olf and had children and was married for a long time i would just leave him. But hes young and has no children. Hasnt even been married for a year. He has even told me he likes me a lot and even asked me if i was in love. But of course i didnt answer that. I need advice what do i do? no i dont wanna leave him. What can i do to help him get a divorce?

s book titled Setting Limits with Your Adult Children might be of interest to you. Basically I concur with the advice of your therapist. You are focused on your adult children behaving differently. It's not within your power to make that happen. Adjust your expectations and you'll limit the disappointment you bring on yourself.

I have been in your shoes. I had and 11 month old and we just found out our second was on the way. We constantly argued about his drinking. One night, I got a phone call that he had been caught driving drunk. I had to go bail him out the next morning and he had his eureka moment when I looked him in the eye outside the jail.

A big thing when going through a bipolar episode is that too much pressure creates a really bad situation. You are no doubt discussing her drinking, her BP meetings, her work, with her and on top of that the whole baby issue. Please, I am not criticizing you here but this is too much being piled onto your wife in one go. Pregnancy does not make BP temporarily go away. Each pregnancy is different as is each persons experience of BP.

I'm five weeks with my amazing boyfriend who I only met 6 months ago I left a marriage in which I wasn't happy I'm only 21 and was married for 2 years but I had to move back in with my dad untill my boyfriend and I get our own place I am terrified to tell my dad because to him I might as well still be a baby in his eyes. And really want to wait until my boyfriend and I are out of his house so there won't be so much tension in the house any advice?

Honestly...probably over half of these women are in no way, shape or form to suggest a divorce if they haven't gotten to the wife status. There are too many girlfriends or baby mamas who are in messed up situations to understand yours. You don't give in like that, a marriage is a UNION that isn't always rosy. I would only consider leaving if there were physical abuse. Talk to him about it, let him know how you feel, if that doesn't work take a break and try again later.

Marriage is suppose to be "Until Death Us Part" not until he makes you sad, mad, or makes you cry. Pregnant or not. So, no I believe you should "let him go". You should tell him know how you feel. I know you're just looking for advice, but remember that's a choice YOU would have to live with. Praying for you and your marriage & Congrats on your baby!

No offense, but it's really hard to read what you have written - are you deeply depressed and want to get out of your marriage? Are you looking for advice about your depression or about how to get a divorce? If it's about divorce, you should talk with a lawyer.

i am 33 yrs old,a mother of 7 and 9 yrs old boys, legally married but practically separated, kids and him are back home i am working overseas and long before i left home for work me a& my husband live in the same house in a different bed. i have several relationship here, but somehow i feel they always leave me, for no apparent reason..just disappear.now i am dating for a month now a guy who is 6 years younger than me, meet him thru a friend & not ever imagine he will like me.

So my husband is on my last nerve! I'm done with it we've been together since February 21, 2011 got married February 25, 2013. All he does is blame everything on me constantly picking fights! He's always right and I'm wrong Im done with it all, idk what to do at this point besides divorce, but then what happens after divorce???? We have a 1 year old and I'm 17+1 with our 2nd what happens in court about custody?? Anyone been through this??

I'm newly pregnant about 4 wks here's issue, I have been legally married for 17 years but for the last 7 years not with "ex"husband at all. We live together in separate rooms because I want to raise my 4 older children and can't afford a divorce since all our assets are tied together. I've been with another man for the last 4 years privately and in love .. Next year I was planning to take action and make things happen as in divorce papers ..

Yeah he is child to both i hadnt had an intercourse bedsides from with him, i want to divorce him but im trying to find out how as i am young!

has sent a letter stating my condition has no bearing on my ablitiy to care for my children. The fact is through the highly emotional period of separation and divorce I have cried sometimes when I am alone with my kids and twice this occurred during low glucose levels with one of the times my older boy got me food, ice cream. (The other time I got food myself.

I totally agree with this article..obviously there are some really good reasons for divorce and I completely understand certain circumstances. But maybe "staying together for the kids" if two people can force themselves to be amicable really ISN'T as bad as we think it is...or at least making one heck of an effort to work it out.

He s a good kid just hes 3 and sometimes likes to over step his boundaries and i know with their divorce he s been pushing to see what he can get away with at whose house.

My son is 8 years old and since he was 4 we have had problems with Behavioral issues but since my divorce with his mother it has gotten worse. While he is with me he is very well behaved but with his mother and in school he behaves very bad to to point where he tripped a girl and has lied about it denying it and saying that everyone is out to get him in general he is very caring.

You don't want that kind of attitude around your daughter. She may be young, but I'm sure even if you don't fight in front of her she knows something's going on. You don't need to let your daughter see him and his friends drunk, and it's not a good environment for a baby. There's plenty of places that you can go to get help, do you have any close family or friends?

Well I would at least let him know that's being said and I assume he would say something either way

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