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Hi, I am having a very difficult time dealing with family without having modd swings. I am trying to go to meetings, but my schedule and family situations are keeping me from doing so. Funny, I could have gone to bars and just neglected family in the past, but now, I am dealing with family situations and trying to be present. However, my children and my husband are DRIVING ME CRAZY. I keep serenity prayering and it helps for a little bit.

d encourage you to seek some medical care in dealing with the learning disability, memory, and dealing with people issues. There are many resources out there that will be able to help you work through those areas and figure out some ways to cope with the things you need help with. We all need help in one area or another, so don't be afraid to reach out and ask for help. You can start with your general doctor and ask for referrals to resources. Keep us updated on how you are doing!

for the baby and how much will effect him. I usually a very emotional person when dealing with death and I feel like a horrible person for not allowing myself to feel bad. What do I do???

Just like falling in love takes time so does dealing with a passing of a loved one.Just opposite ways of feeling.Love and loss,two parts of life that both hurt.For loving anyone or anything,such as a pet can lead to pain.All feelings lead to pain and despair,eventually.So do we stop feeling,stop loving,stop caring,no we just learn to adjust to our new lives without that loved one that pet,that friend.whom ever.Death ends a life,not a relationship.

im 19 wks pregnant and i have a fetus with a diagnosis of CPC im scared to death because i have to wait 3 wks to go to a specialist...anyone have any hopes or ideas??

i don't know how you deal with losing a child. I'm not so sure that i can ever get through this, how do you do it? I mean get up every day and not feel guilty for living without them. I feel so guilty every day for getting out of bed and her not being here. I need some advice please.

Getting the news can be very overwhelming and stressful. It's normal to be in shock and go through waves of different emotions at times. While I don't have personal experience with this, I did want to pass along that there are a number of organiazations out there with information and support resources for families dealing with congenital heart issues. Little Hearts, CHD Families, Children's Heart Association, Children's Heart Foundation.

Hey!! I'm 7 weeks with my first! Like all new moms I have a million questions. What are the best resources for new moms to be??

It is better to go to meetings and talk with the other recovering alcoholics about the troubles you run in to trying to stay sober they understand. Just take what helps you and leave the rest in the rooms. God grant me the serenity to except the things that I cannot change the courage to change the things that I can and the wisdom to no the difference.

My mother(age 47) has drasticly gone down hill in the past 4yrs. It seemed to all happen at once and in the past year things have gotten worse. Heart disease runs strong in my family,not many have lived past 50yrs old.My mom has hypertension,high blood pressure, chronic lung disease, and heart disease to name a few. This past July she had to have emergeny double bypass surgery and had a minor heartatacke about a month after the surgery.

Shut off our phones and mourned our babies death. We went to this nice winery with a beautiful river that ran by it and at sunset picked a flower for every week of our babies life with us in my belly and sent them down the river with thoughts and prayers of that journey. I don't know if it will help you but it at least gave me some closure. It's such a hard thing to go threw. I understand.

I had my first son, Jeremiah, 3years ago. My husband and I really wanted a girl, but when we found out it was a boy, I actually found myself to be UPSET. For a while after I found out, I walked around wishing I wasn't pregnant with him. Of course I love my son to death, and can't imagine life without him. Now that I'm pregnant again, I'm having this mothers instinct that its a girl. But I don't want to go through the disappointment again.

m the only person with a spouse with addiction issues but the deep down thoughts.. Like is it me? Is it something I did? Or why does he lie to me? Like its always my fault.. I have lost sight of myself & my needs due to his addiction.. Like I had said my life is a roller coaster and some days are great some days are bad. It just depends on if he is using or not? When they are good I feel like we just sweep the problem under the rug & if I bring anything up its a fight.

Honestly, I wouldn't start trying for a baby right now. I think it's too soon - especially if you're just in a new relationship and you're still dealing with the pain and emotions of the previous miscarriage which wasn't that long ago. I would wait till you've been in your relationship a little longer and you've healed more too. You might feel fine some days, but not other days and getting pregnant is not going to magically fix that.

I would suggest getting him to see psychologist/psychiatrist so that they can give him tools to cope with whatever he is dealing with in order to quit using a drug. Good luck!

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