Word for not having sex until marriage
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So my man has trouble with ED and he takes Cialis, for a long time he never needed them for regular nightly sex, only for the kinky longer (no kids home) funner sex. Sooooo my problem is we never have sex and even with the Cialis he can't seem to perform. I have tried everything... Oral, hand all kinds. I cannot marry someone that clearly finds me unattractive. I was already in a marriage like that. Oh and to top it off around friends he makes like I am saying no to sex all the time.
i understand it seems like a big age difference but our relationship is so much older. we are perfect for each other. but this not having sex thing has really gotten to me and it drives me insane. we have talked about it several times and her answer has changed as far as not having sex until she is married to telling me she was ready but couldn't do it because she was scared of her parents. Her latest answer was she isn't going to be ready to have sex until she is ready to have a kid.
After the second child, my wife got operated as a birth control precaution, for a while i noticed a diminished libido in her and now for the past few months wife has stoped initiating sex atall. I have been initiating sex for all this while. But for past 2 months she has been avoiding sex altogether, i think my frustration was obivious and last week out of frustration, i had forced sex. But am uncomfortable since then.
I'm just wondering, counseling for what purpose? Unless you're having mental problems, this problems isn't a problem a therapist can handle unless both of you see the therapist for couple's counseling. The therapist can't affect your wife's behavior, and if the way you describe it is how it's happening, your wife's behavior is the problem here.
I told him that i was ready to make this step cause i had never experienced this before. and i knew he was the one for me and i loved him so much. so we did stop having sex but he and i did engage in masturbation bout of course not together. lol. it was as hard getting over the fact of not having sex i thought something was wrong wit him . i have talk to my guy friends and they all say cause he is gay. but it has now been almost a year of not having sex.
Our relationship started off with us having sex 1 to 3 times a day just about everyday, until our first child then once a day until we had our last 2 (twins). Having 4 children knocked us down to 1 to 3 times a week. Our children are now 9, 8, and the twins are about to be 7. Within the last year or so we've dramatically went down to once a month if that and there is no passion, no emotion, and it's become quite forceful to get my husband to want to have sex with me.
In my opinion, it is not the best decision to wait until marriage - if you do not know the person you decide to marry also sexually, then there can be a lot of unpredictable surprises in this area after marriage - and unfortunately many of these surprises may be very bad and destructive... I think that partners should know each other very well before they get married - and sexuality belongs to such important parts of our personalities which shouldn´t be simply ignored before marriage.
Thanks for ur response. I love my husband very much. I believe the same. It is serious issues. I believe without God first and following his word toward living a more Christ like life, For myself, it's killing my spirt, poor choices have been made.
s important for you to relax your body and relax your mind when you want to have sex. If you do not, you may be distracted and may not enjoy sex very much. It's important for you to feel good before and while you are having sex so your vagina is wet inside. If you aren't wet, it may hurt or be uncomfortable for you to have sex. It's important for you to touch your husband's body and have him touch your body, so you both can discover what feels good.
I have a boyfriend whom i love and trusted so much that even though we planned not to have sex till we marry we broke that vow and that's silly on my side for allowing that . After having sex and i left things began to change and we started having problems. I read on his chat with a friend that he is not ready for me cos of my monetary issues which is cos i asked for something to sort myself out in school. And on another chat he told the friend that my breast is pechee that is soft.
Im 36 weeks, me and my partner still manage to have sex. Although I never always feel up for it!
Now you had sex, he is fun and you want it to be more, he doesnt but wants you to hang around so he can use ya for sex. Ya dont have sex with someone not wanting a serious relationship until either the relationship turns serious or you can emotionally handle the friends with benefits thing. It doesnt sound like you can. Sorry.
I'm 21 years old and I've never had intercourse before. My fiance is about 6'2 and I'm 5'11. We've been in a relationship for a long time. Sometimes when we're making out, he fingers me and we've had oral (but I've never had an orgasm). We wanted to wait until marriage before having intercourse and next week is the big day.
I've been steady with my bf for 5 months now. I'm 16 and he's 17. He doesn't pressure me for sex, which I love about him. We have oral sex and he fingers me, but I feel like it's not enough. I want to have sex with him, but I'm still scared of losing my virginity. I'm not on birthcontrol either, but he did buy condoms. Im wondering if I should or shouldn't have sex with him yet..? Advice please!
Ive been with my girlfriend for 3years and 6 months, with no sex. I am not a virgin, she is. I respect her decision but its really driving me nuts! We got engaged on december 17, She wants to get married in may. I dont know what to do in order to remain calm and stay true in the relationship, I have had women I have known for a while tell me to take out my sexual frustrations out on them, but I cant see myself hurting my girlfriend. I need guidence!
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