but be there for him if he wants to talk, maybe time can be a healer and by all means see that the man pays as he will keep on doing this, also if he kept going back there may be a reason, that he is not talking about all of this ,I have seen this happen and my heart goes out to all of you just try to comvince him he
was not at fault, and the man
was the abuser and he
was just a victim,, he may feel he did something wrong assure him of your love.