your own unresolved issues, or something not stated in our interchange that might turn him off, e.g. big weight gain
, loss of attractiveness, etc. And as mentioned, I’m just extrapolating from the info you provided. But, with that caveat, I don’t see the issue with him going away. He’s not psychologically minded, and if I’m right, scarred, and unmotivated to explore himself.
I want to go a bit further than your question to ask about you yourself.