Have you tried posting in the 18-34 pregnancy forum, maybe someone there will be able to help since they have a broader number of women in that forum. I had no idea that
varicose veins could get so bad nor that they could be
in the nether regions. Pretty much that is what a hemeroid is so, I guess it would make sense that you could get one there too. Be sure to discuss with your OB, I'm sure things will work out so that the best option is chosen for both you and baby.