we let life get in the way of our marriages, sometimes. We take each
other for granted
in our marriages. It is like, we have them... they are there, so is the house, the dog, the kids, the cars, the mortgage.... and all of that kind of removes us from our situation.
The woman you married was at one point in time, the most important thing in the world and probably still is at some level. You can probably feel that in your heart, but all of that other stress gets in the way.