There are several other medications you can talk to his or your doctor about including Wellbutrin, Effexor, Pristiq for the depression and Xanax
or Ativan for the anxiety.
All AD meds are hit and
miss for everyone. What might work for one person may not work for the next. You just have to try them and see what sticks.
I took Effexor, but didn't like the sexual side-effects, so I switched to Wellbutrin which gave me all kinds of bad side-effects, so I ended up going back to the Effexor.