My inlaws were very upset when we told them that we were driving up to
NJ on Christmas eve, and spending the weekend in
NJ. Last year, we also spent Christmas day in NJ, but my high school reunion was the day after, so we had to be up there. Their argument is that Thanksgiving isn't a holiday, we were up there last year, and that it's Matt's first Christmas, and they won't see him at all.