Well Sweetie, I guess you told me, didn't you?
First of all, I would tell ANYONE, be they 21 or 91, to grow up if they were mixing benzos with alcohol.
Secondly, you have been DANGEROUSLY misinformed that Xanax and alcohol is NOT a lethal mix. Ask one of my best friends who buried her daughter last year after a bout of drinking and taking some of her mothers Xanax. She, tragically, probably thought it would help her "calm down and feel more social.