Sounds like you need to be evaluated by a qualified pelvic floor specialist. Someone with
experience evaluating prolapse and incontinence. Urine leakage with
coughing laughing, sneezing, and activity sounds like something called stress urinary incontinence, and depending on how much it bothers you, can be ignored, treated with specialized pelvic floor strengthening exercises, pessaries (special vaginal inserts), or a type of surgery called s "sling procedure".