I agree with the previous post, baby proof and keep them within sight, as for the 4yo taking things from home, my 6Yo steals from walmart, anything he can hide in his shoes, pockets even in his underpants, i have taken away electronics, fav toys, and he gets spanked, he was getting so bad that i pretended
to call 911,
to ask them
to take him
to jail for stealing, i "asked" how many times a day they ate (1), that they cold showers, no toys or tv and kids in jail cant see their families