First, I want to tell you, I am so, so sorry
for what you are experiencing!! I, too, have major
bladder issues.
Neurogenic Bladder. I had the Inter Stim Implant a little over a year ago. Until recently, It helped with the all of a sudden urge and loss of control.
I was hospitalized in August and November for UTI/Bladder Infection and had to have IV's at home for two weeks after the last hospitalization. For four years, I've had to wear Depends 24/7.